30/09/2026
"I guess it's normal".
That is the first lie of many. If she believed that it's normal, she wouldn't have posted about it in the first place. That little phrase is the "defectiveness schema", the belief that you are permanently broken. A textbook sign of complex trauma.
The second red line indicates that she isn't discussing hypotheticals, but a real situation she is living in. The third red line confirms that all of this isn't about society, but one man. It's always about one man.
I would rather have you hate me than lie to yourself, and any man who cannot match that statement isn't one you can trust. I know that sounds like a litmus test for men, and it's because that's exactly what it is.
Do with that information what you will.
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𝐚𝐫𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫 (noun, Latin)
"𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑂𝑛𝑒 𝑊ℎ𝑜 𝑊𝑎𝑡𝑐ℎ𝑒𝑠"
