Psychotherapy at Schuman

14/10/2026

A personal note on harassment

For several years, I have experienced harassment and false allegations originating with one person who also harassed several other women. I became a particular target after warning others about his behaviour. The police and prosecutor’s office intervened, and he was officially warned.

If you receive allegations about me, please contact me privately rather than pass them on. Preserving the original message can help document continued harassment.

Around one in four women in Brussels has experienced stalking during her lifetime, according to the 2024 IWEPS/IBSA/Statistiek Vlaanderen report. I share my article to help people recognise how harassment spreads through well-meaning bystanders—and how to avoid being recruited into someone else’s malicious campaign.

[“I Just Want to Stay Out of It”](https://lenaildikonemeth.substack.com/p/i-just-want-to-stay-out-of-it)

Understanding harassment, recognising its patterns, and the key difference bystanders can make.

10/10/2026

https://lenaildikonemeth.substack.com/p/about-the-tasks-of-a-leader-or-what?r=10rlmr&utm_medium=ios

Abstract

28/09/2026

https://lenaildikonemeth.substack.com/p/why-love-alone-is-not-enough-or-the?r=10rlmr&utm_medium=ios

I have worked with people for 16 years, and I do not have a recipe for a good relationship.

23/09/2026

A place to think together, over time

Places are available in my established, English-speaking analytic psychotherapy groups in Brussels. The groups meet in person for 90 minutes each week.

Members bring different cultural backgrounds, sexualities and life experiences. Together, they explore their inner lives and the patterns that emerge in relationships.

Joining begins with an initial assessment and preparatory sessions. The groups are intended for people able to attend regularly and commit to at least six months.

For details and availability, please contact Lena Ildikó Németh privately at [email protected] or 0488 89 06 62.

20/09/2026

https://lenaildikonemeth.substack.com/p/about-the-unbearable-weight-women?r=10rlmr&utm_medium=ios

This article is about a quiet bargain many girls learn before they can name it—I will notice what others leave unattended, and in return I will belong—and about how, as emotional responsibility becomes practical labour and competence attracts ever more dependence, a woman may gradually disappear...

14/09/2026

https://lenaildikonemeth.substack.com/p/it-is-the-good-hearted-who-suffer?r=10rlmr&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

To Csabi.

11/09/2026

https://lenaildikonemeth.substack.com/p/how-to-tame-the-tigeror-about-the

People come to me with all sorts of struggles in life, and each of them deserves full attention in its own right.

25/08/2026

What We Are Taught at School—and What We Actually Need in Life

30/04/2026

https://medium.com//s%C3%A1ndor-ferenczi-suggested-that-much-suffering-arises-from-not-knowing-how-important-we-are-to-6751c555f174

Sándor Ferenczi suggested that much suffering arises from not knowing how important we are to others. And so we miss the quiet weight of our own presence in each other’s lives.

11/04/2026

If something in your life feels difficult to understand, resolve, or even put into words, this is often where the work begins.

Some difficulties are not simply problems to be solved. They involve patterns, relationships, and experiences that unfold over time and cannot be reduced to quick explanations or techniques.

In psychotherapy, these dynamics can be explored more slowly and in depth — until something begins to make sense in a different way.

I work with individuals and groups in Brussels and online, in English and Hungarian.

If this resonates, you are welcome to get in touch.