16/08/2023
"Sure you don't need to lose weight!"
It can sometimes feel scary to become someone different.
Someone who makes better food choices... No matter what anyone else comments.
Someone who commits to a new training programme despite friends saying, “You look fine as you are, you don't need to lose weight.”
Someone that has the courage to tell those around you “No” when they need to.
Putting yourself and your goals front and centre for a change.
Putting yourself first.
You might be asking, “Well, why would that be scary?”🤔
Because when you start making changes to your health for the better,
You often expose others' inability to do something about theirs.
They push back, telling you that you’re fine as you are, you’ve no need to change.
Or the classic “go on, one won't hurt”.
I'm sure you have been in a situation before at work where someone brings in a box of doughnuts or cupcakes for someone's birthday and all of a sudden you become the centre of attention just for saying 'no thanks' to eating one. 🤦🏻♀️
It almost makes you feel as though people think you are trying to be ‘better’ than them in some way. when in fact, you are just trying to make better choices for yourself.
All these comments are meant to pull you back to the person you once were, to make them feel better. News flash: It's not your job to make anyone else feel better.
I want to give you the heads up…
Get you prepared for some pushback on your journey.
And tell you, don't let others' inability to change affect yours.
It might be time to become the person that they can’t...