13/05/2021
"I LOVE MY FAMILY" is a common phrase that people use when it comes to their loved onesโค๐จโ๐ฉโ๐ง but have we defined what it really means to love your children?? Your spouse??
Part of loving your family is being intentional about healing from the parts of you that cause you to be "Angry"
"Anxious"
"Violent"
"Emotionally absent"
"Resentful"
"Unforgiving" etc.
As uncomfortable๐ซ as it may be to face your past hurts, trauma, disappointments and all those things that happened to you and have shaped the adult you have become and continue to influence your decisions; LOVEโค is such a powerful force that can overcome the conversation in your head convincing you that you are "fine" and that you don't need counselling or any other means of finding healing.
๐บ๏ธCycles/patterns repeat and family foundations that are hurtful especially to children continue to exist in the society because someone did not decide to break the cycle,
๐บ๏ธBecause someone has not decided yet to be different,
๐บ๏ธBecause someone has not decided to take a different route,
๐บ๏ธBecause someone has given into temporary comfort of ignoring parts of themselves they need to heal from.
GO SEEK HELP, GO FOR COUNSELLING, NORMALIZE MENTAL HEALTH CHECK UPS!!!!!!!
DO IT SO YOU BECOME A BETTER MOTHER, FATHER, HUSBAND, WIFE...
LET US REDEFINE LOVE FOR OUR LOVED ONES
REDEFINING MARRIAGES
REDEFINING FAMILIES
