Olorato Marriage Counselling Centre

29/07/2026

ARE YOU READY FOR MARRIAGE?

Are you planning to get married? Are you ready for marriage? Or you just want to secure the relationship? Or the s*x is amazing? Marriage is one man one woman type of relationship. Why do you enter marriage yet you still have secret lovers?

Are you going to allow your husband to lead you? Are you going to allow your wife to advice you? How is your communication? Is there listening? Is there understanding? Are you ready to compromise on friends, alcohol, night life and Sunday soccer? Are you ready to create time for spouse and family?

When challenges come can you be counted upon? Can you seek help? Can you pray together? Or you will be ready to revenge against your spouse? Can you forgive? How committed are you? Are you entering to stay and build or you are already thinking about divorce because of the many red flags you are already seeing?

Prepare for life inside marriage, times have changed, love alone is no longer enough

ALBERT GAOPELO
SENIOR MARRIAGE COUNSELOR
APP 74 748 311/ 72 887 488

28/07/2026

REVENGE AFFAIR

The pain of finding out that your partner/spouse has been unfaithful is unbearable. But entering into a retaliatory relationship or affair to balance the scorecard is something even more damaging to the marriage or relationship. No matter the pain or anger that you are dealing with, avoid resolving your problems in this fashion. It complicates matters and totally collapses the little trust that was there. Why sleep with his friend, his boss or her cousin or colleague to bring the same devastation? Are you that evil? Will it bring you peace? NO. Seek help than complicate matters even further.

ALBERT GAOPELO
SENIOR MARRIAGE COUNSELOR
APP 74 748 311/ 72 887 488

23/07/2026

WIFE LOVE VS GIRLFRIEND LOVE.

Some married women crave for days when they were still girlfriends, before seriousness and formalities that come with marriage took over.

When you are still girlfriend everything is about fun, excitement and spontaneity. You are being chased. The character doesn't even matter. But dont be tricked, its still an assessment time for wife material.

Now after the wedding, the focus changes, those trips and gifts before marriage reduce or disappear. Wife character suddenly becomes a big issue. The focus is now on projects, sacrifices, building life and a name.

It can also be a frustrating period for a wife especially when she starts feeling like she doesn't matter any more. Feeling neglected. Small but important little things being swept aside.

ALBERT GAOPELO
SENIOR MARRIAGE COUNSELOR
APP 74 748 311/ 72 887 488

21/07/2026