06/02/2026
Had the pleasure to present last weekend at the SAnon Retreat for partners of s*x addicts in Calgary. I spoke about the reality betrayal trauma, how it impacts the brain and body, and that healing is possible! The betrayal bind of "the person I long to turn to for comfort is also the person I need to protect myself from" is painful and overwhelming and the trauma response is normal. Healing starts by addressing it from a bottom up approach- focusing on safety, self care, emotion & nervous system regulation, and learning to "row your own boat". Thanks to the organizers of this event for allowing me the opportunity to participate.