07/16/2026
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Being grounded doesn’t mean nothing affects you. It means you can feel disappointment, anger, grief, or fear without letting the emotion make every decision for you. Emotions are messengers, but if they escalate they can also hijack our brains (the tsunami of hormones taking over the amygdala, and disabling the prefrontal cortex).
But you can pause. You can listen to what the feeling is trying to show you. Do some deep breathing (inhale for 4 , exhale for 6 to engage the parasympathetic nervous system so things calm down). And then you can choose your response with greater clarity.
"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” - Viktor Frankl
This is not about denying our emotions or becoming numb. The idea is to become steady enough to stay connected to ourselves, even when life feels difficult.
What helps you return to yourself when your emotions feel overwhelming?
Drop a 💛 if you think have a strategy or are open to one
