07/18/2026
Hi everyone,
As you may or may not know, mom had her 6 month follow up with the transplant team Wednesday in Toronto. I have been vague as to how the appointment went as it was confusing and didn’t seem all that positive. Mom is very weak and has a hard time walking which is causing her to have several falls, more than I think I am being told about. We saw Dr.Selzner who is one of the transplant doctors. Dr. Selzner stated that mom needed to have a CT scan and then asked about the EEG mom had. She stated she couldn’t find the results, which I told her I specifically asked for it to be sent to the transplant team. The note she found stated it was inconclusive, and that she needed to have another one. This EEG was done when we thought she had that seizure last year. Dr. Selzner was very concerned on the rapid decline in mom and during her exam, she lifted moms shirt to examine her stomach then said “oh dear,” asked for mom to be weighed and then walked away. I was confused as I didn’t have any answers and asked her assistant if she was coming back as I wanted to talk to her. She came back and stated that she was trying to get a surgeon to come in to see her, but I stated we had limited time due to the train. I asked if she wanted me to see if I could get a later train but she said no because all the surgeons were in the OR anyways. I asked if mom was still having the surgery on the 27th in which she stated she didn’t know anything about the surgery. She assured us that she would be in contact with us in the next few days.
Today I heard from Dr.Selzner and she stated that it was determined that mom is too frail and too thin as her BMI is low. She stated that if mom were to have the surgery the outcome wouldn’t be good and in recovery she would be on breathing tubes and it would affect the kidneys (Kidney levels are high.)
The doctor said that mom is still on the transplant list but she needs to gain weight and work on her strength. She put in a referral for the prehabilitation program, which we got a call about yesterday. That is for exercises to help strengthen mom up. I asked if the live donor is going to the next person in which she replied that they are still testing the live donor and for now they aren’t donating to anyone. Not sure if they are saving that live donor for mom or what.
This is very heartbreaking news as not once but twice now we have been told mom was getting a live donor. The only sad thing is we were actually given a date this time. Please keep mom in your thoughts and prayers that she can gain some weight to get this surgery.
Thank you for all the love and support through this 💕