08/31/2026
WHAT IF YOU’RE TRYING TO DRINK LESS, BUT YOU’RE MISSING PART OF THE REASON YOU DRINK?
When someone wants to cut back on alcohol or change their drinking habits, it’s easy to focus entirely on the alcohol. But sometimes there are other things happening in your life and your body that are influencing the pattern without you realizing they’re connected.
This is why I look at alcohol use and addiction through a biopsychosocial lens.
BIOLOGY: What is happening in your body?
Have you recently started or changed a medication? Has your appetite changed? Are you suddenly craving sugar or refined carbohydrates? Are you sleeping poorly? Are you exhausted at a certain time every day? Have there been changes in your physical health, hormones, energy or stress response?
Sometimes when people reduce one source of comfort or reward, they find themselves reaching for another. Your body matters when you’re trying to understand alcohol cravings and drinking behaviour. If you notice significant changes after starting or changing a medication, speak with your doctor or pharmacist about what you’re experiencing.
PSYCHOLOGY: What is happening in your life and your mind?
Have you recently retired and suddenly lost the structure you had for decades? Are you bored? Lonely? Anxious? Grieving? Frustrated? Have you lost a sense of purpose or something you used to look forward to?
Perhaps alcohol has become the thing that marks the end of the day, gives you something to anticipate, quiets your thoughts, changes your mood or fills time that suddenly feels empty.
SOCIAL: What is happening around you?
Who do you drink with? Has drinking become part of dinner, watching sports, weekends, vacations or seeing friends? Has your social life changed? Are there certain people, places or situations where drinking feels almost automatic?
These questions matter because changing your relationship with alcohol involves understanding the whole person, rather than simply counting drinks.
If you’re sober curious, questioning gray area drinking, trying to cut back on alcohol, struggling with alcohol cravings or finding yourself repeatedly thinking, “Why do I keep doing this when I sa