08/25/2026
👋 Here I am, entering the last year of my 40s era and even though there is an old fashioned stigma that comes with aging for women, I say, Bring It On!
🤔 The older I get the more confident I feel, the more energetic, more driven and the less I care about other people's thoughts or opinions....🧿 by now I have gotten scary good at reading other folks and steering clear of those not quite in alignment with my highest good 🪬 🚫
🥰 What would I say to the much younger version of myself, to my daughters and to my son....
Looking back.... I've learned that other people's shortcomings are triggered by those they look up to.... so if I trigger something in you, may it be that you can design your own life, pursue your dreams, change your mind as many times as you need to, believe in yourself even when there are so many naysayers along the way. You can make decisions in your own terms.
🚫 Don't ever lose your voice, be unapologetically you, yet don't ever lose your kindness and childlike playfulness.
🚫 Don’t ever allow bitterness to cloud over you. Treat others as you would like to be treated is the Golden Rule.
👉 You will trigger off a lot of people but that is not a flaw you need to fix ❣️
👉 Oh yes, keep your circle small, not everyone should have access to your inner world. Some folks are just around to collect information to use against you sometimes....🪬
👉 Stay humble, believe in second chances, recognize when you're wrong , and be the first one to apologize when you make a mistake.
👉 Listen to your intuition 🫶 she is your best friend, and she will guide you to the right people you can open up to.
❤️ With age comes wisdom, the kind that can only be gained through life experiences: The good, the bad, the ugly, the amazing, the awful, the unforgettable moments and so much more.
❤️ Life is so good, even when it's not.
Know that even in your lowest moments, you always come back up and most of the time there's a lesson to be learned. So open yourself up to what that lesson is.
And so it is.... for now....
From this proud Virgo to you: Shine On Beautiful People Shine On 😚
Love, Beverly