08/09/2026
It’s that time of year again!
Many children are starting to experience anticipatory worry and uncertainty about the upcoming school year.
We are here to help support this transition for your child.
QUICK TIPS
1. Start the Routine Early.
Gradually return to regular bedtimes, wake-up times, meals, and morning routines before school begins.
2. Talk About Their Feelings
Give your child space to share their worries without dismissing them. Listen and remind them that feeling nervous is normal and that they are not alone (e.g., they have you and their teacher to help them through).
3. Focus on What They Can Control
Help your child prepare their backpack, choose an outfit, or organize school supplies. Small choices can give them a greater sense of control.
4. Visit the School Beforehand
Walk through the school, locate their classroom, and meet their teacher. Familiarity can make the first day feel less overwhelming.
5. Practice the First Day
Role-play common situations, such as saying goodbye, asking their friend to play, or asking the teacher for help. Knowing what to expect can reduce uncertainty.
6. Keep Goodbyes Positive and Predictable
Create a short, consistent goodbye routine (e.g., a special hug or handshake sequence). A calm, reassuring farewell will also help your child feel secure without making the separation feel longer or larger than it needs to be.
7. Offer Supportive Statements
Supportive statements combine validation of your child’s feelings with your confidence in their ability to cope (e.g., “I know you feel anxious about the first day, and I’m confident that you can handle it”). These statements help to facilitate independence rather than avoidance.
8. Know When to Seek Extra Support
Some anxiety is normal, but persistent or intense worries that interfere with sleep, school attendance, or daily activities may need additional therapy or school support.
Our team at J. Gordon Psychology Group is pediatric-focused and specializes in evidence-based interventions for anxiety.
Whether you think your child would benefit from just a wellness check-in to discuss a coping plan, or if they need more extensive, wrap-around supports for anxiety management, we are here to help.
How we can Support:
- Child therapy sessions to support regulation and coping skills.
-Parent coaching to support anxiety management at home.
-Collaborating with schools to offer classroom strategies.
-Social-emotional assessments to clarify difficulties and to provide more formal school recommendations.
To inquire further or to book an appointment: [email protected]