07/01/2026
Just noticing…
The next time you notice yourself feeling anxious, worried, angry, resentful or frustrated, or the next time you catch yourself being overly critical, over-reacting, or being overly attached to something, please don’t be discouraged and feel you’re not making any progress in your practice of mindfulness. You are! Remember that mindfulness is first of all about noticing these states within ourself, these negative thought patterns, emotional reactions or feeling overwhelmed. This is you developing self awareness. It is the first step in mindfulness, the basis of emotional intelligence, regulation and healing, and this is progress! Give yourself credit for that.
Once you develop this awareness you can begin to label what you feel; “Oh, there is some frustration” (name it to tame it) and begin to practice the pause. Stop, take a few deep breaths, and acknowledge how it feels in your body. (feel it to heal it) When these thoughts and feelings are overwhelming, it can dysregulate the nervous system, throwing you into “fight or flight” and over time, lead to the development chronic symptoms like anxiety, headaches, muscle tension / pain in neck, back and shoulders, gut issues, fatigue etc. Once you start noticing you can begin to choose how you respond, and you can find the tools to help you self regulate rather than living on auto pilot.
In time you can begin to examine what is beneath these patterns of thought and reaction. Is there a need not being met, or is there a past pain or trauma that has not been acknowledged or healed? Here is where we can truly do the deep work of getting to know ourselves, and learning to feel safe and regulated. We have the power to really transform our mind and body…and it all begins with awareness or just noticing. 💛
Lori Shea