10/19/2026
Avoidance can be a tricky thing. Sometimes we think we’ve moved past something because we’re no longer engaging with it. But if we’re continually adjusting our choices, behaviours, or circumstances to make sure we never have to encounter it, how much space is it still occupying? Of course, sometimes distance is necessary and protective. Not everything needs to be revisited. But there’s a difference between consciously choosing distance and quietly organizing our lives around something we’re trying to avoid. Sometimes what we’ve left behind is still influencing where we’re willing to go. And that might be worth getting curious about.