Miss Mandee

05/25/2026

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There's a power struggle here. For some, it's good 😉 and for others it's toxic as F*.
The spicy bit? Your deepest desire for... harder play can no longer be ignored. It's everywhere and all you can think of. Hell, some of you may be experiencing this for the first time with a very dominant partner 🥵🌶 Don't forget to set rules and boundaries or else it may get out of hand. Seek out the Dom or maybe you realize you are the Dom/Domme. Stand in that power and embrace it fully. You'll find a playmate, you just have to look for it.
For the not so spicy. You are fighting for power with a weak, power-hungry loser. They are trying to keep you chained up emotionally. "It's for your own good" "I care about you" "I just want you to be healthy". See this behaviour for what it is and call out that BS right away.
Honestly, I also feel like there is someone in your life or past that you had INCREDIBLE 🌶💦 with and they are using that as an excuse to get back in your life. They want more, you were the best they ever had but they didn't know how to handle it. Tough call here, but if you let them back in your life make sure you set the ground rules out. Be powerful and take charge. Tell them what you want, what you expect and if they can't provide that, move on baby.
If it's not giving you Or #@$ms then hunny, it needs to go. Life is too short to put up with manipulation and no 💦

05/23/2026

05/18/2026

Powered through this on my Bilbo Baggins Day.
I feel like I'm in that liminal space. Caught between "Nice" & "Not Nice"
FYI Howlite is good for combating anxious feelings and bringing in peace and calm. At least for me anyways.
Stay Witchy.

05/04/2026

It feels like someone wants to make the wrong choice.
Maybe it's wrong, maybe it isn't. That's your call.
Someone has been OBSESSING over a person. Can't stop, won't stop thinking about them. You can see what the thoughts are about in the 9 of Swords card 🥵 But here's the problem, there's a fork in the road right now. One path leads to fulfillment and one leads to destruction.
Different people will have different results. Here's what I mean: It may appear obvious in the Tempation card what the "right" answer should be. But is it though? If the thought of settling down and having the family freaks you out, then perhaps that's the path you should avoid. If you think going with the promiscuous option sounds like a nightmare then maybe you're right.
The person you've been obsessing over is either the right or wrong choice. But there's really only one way to find out right?
Moral of the story, figure out what you want first. Then you can pursue your fantasy person. If they don't align with what you want then move on. It's that simple and that complicated.

12/26/2025

That TBR pile grows faster than I can keep up...

11/03/2025

Today's Relationship Energy: It feels like some of you are taking some time apart and one of you is up to something that would be considered deceitful. If you think the other can't see what you're up to, you're very wrong. They can see it all, even if they haven't said anything. Others may be separated BECAUSE of something deceitful that the other (or you) have done.
How to Transmute: I feel as though some of you may not know what you even want from a partner. You've been wishing and dreaming about what you think you want. You also tend to follow what others tell you that you should want. This definitely puts strain on your relationships because those expectations aren't always realistic. Some of you may benefit from outside help on the matter, like from a professional or an adult.
Decks Used: Shadowscapes Tarot and The Romance Angels

11/01/2025

Today's Relationship Energy: Some of you may be having a fresh start in love. Either with a new or existing person. You may be feeling particularly... kind, compassionate and empathetic today. Because you're feeling all lovey dovey, you'll be in a more receptive space to welcome a new person or fresh start with someone already in your life.
How to Transmute: Know your worth Queen. You're already in that potent fertile, sexual Energy. If you want this relationship to work, or even start, you need to trust. Trust that you deserve to be loved right. Trust your instinct if it feels off with this person. Just because someone approaches you with offers of love or compliments you doesn't mean you have to give your heart to this person. You're giving off strong feminine vibes, you're in your most powerful energy. You're going to attract all sorts of people. Use your intuition to sus out if this person is honest and genuine. Stay sexy Queens.
Decks Used: Tarot of Sexual Magic and Sexual Magic Oracle