08/14/2026
1️⃣ Each work morning must start with coffee and hilarious reels. If you don’t know me, I love to laugh! I will come in a bit early before my first session to start on a good note. ☕️😂
2️⃣ Grounding and orienting throughout the day, every day. 🌱👁️ Sensory tools and grounding practices are just as much for me as they are for clients. If you see me shaking it out or doing some sort of weird stretch or self-holding, just carry on.
3️⃣ No late evenings or weekend appointments. 🙅🏻♀️ I curate a schedule I won’t be resentful of, so I can put the most energy into client care that I can. I love my family and want to ensure I miss as little precious time with my children as possible while also having a fulfilling and thriving career.
4️⃣ I complete my notes same day always! 👩🏫 This practice doesn’t just satisfy the organizer part of me, it always provides a structured container to reflect on sessions and a ritual to move on from work to personal life. Containment is super important for therapists and is not just for clients/people actively in trauma therapy!
5️⃣ No overhead fluorescent lights EVER.💡I love a dim light set up to help settle both mine and my clients’ nervous systems. This is an every therapist thing I’m pretty sure.
6️⃣ If I get to the point of not liking going to work, something must change.‼️Mitigating burnout requires ongoing self awareness and engaging in the act of “noticing” diligently. I listen to my body and all parts of me and take them seriously.
7️⃣ Lots of joy and fun in my life is a rule, not an exception. No martyrdom allowed.🚫 With such awareness of the brutal things people live through, I have to pay special attention to the duality that exists in life and remind myself why working on the tough stuff/helping others to work on the tough stuff is worth it: Because life is meant to be enjoyed and lived fully. I prioritize experiences with my family, engage in hobbies I love and have a lot of great friends that I love to lean on and laugh with. ✨