08/08/2026
Finding a therapist is one thing. Finding the right therapist is another. Here are a few signs to look for:
✨ Therapy works best when you feel safe: You should feel comfortable enough to say the hard things. If something feels off, that matters.
✨ You should feel heard, not fixed: A good therapist listens carefully and responds thoughtfully. They don't rush to give you answers or tell you what to do. They help you find your own way.
✨ It's okay if it takes a few sessions to know: The first session is often about getting to know each other. Give it two or three visits before deciding, but trust yourself if something consistently doesn't feel right.
✨ You're allowed to ask questions: Before or during therapy, it's okay to ask about their approach, their experience, or how they work.
✨ Finding the right fit is a part of the process: Switching therapists isn't a failure. It's you advocating for the kind of care you deserve.
At Shalem, our roster of therapists brings a range of approaches, backgrounds, and specialties. We're here to help you find the right fit. Contact us today: https://shalemnetwork.org/