10/13/2026
Some friendships go back so far that the stories, laughter and memories become part of who we are. For Tom, Roger and John, that friendship began in Grade 9, 60 years ago.
Over the decades, life carried them through countless moments together. And near the end of John’s life, music gave the three friends another opportunity to share something special.
While John was a resident at St. Joseph’s Hospice, Tom and Roger came to visit, bringing their instruments and playing a few songs just for him. It was a simple gesture between longtime friends, but one that left a lasting impression.
After John passed away, Tom and Roger wanted to find a way to honour their friend and give something back to the place that had cared for him and his family. They began practising more regularly, preparing for a return visit to Hospice, this time to share their music with residents and staff in John’s memory.
When the day arrived, John’s family came to Hospice and joined with staff and families. Familiar songs from The Beatles and Canadian singer-songwriter Ian Tyson soon filled the room. The music took many back to the 1960s, and before long, audience members were singing along, sharing smiles and enjoying the kind of afternoon that reminds us how powerful music can be.
It was a day filled with music, friendship and love, and a beautiful reminder that while someone may no longer be with us, the connections they leave behind continue to bring people together.
That spirit of remembrance and gratitude carried into another meaningful moment. The Edith and Donald Strupat Foundation generously donated $10,000 to St. Joseph’s Hospice.
This gift will help make moments like these possible for other families. It will support the compassionate care and comfort that John and his family experienced at Hospice, giving other families a place to spend meaningful time together, make memories, feel supported and focus on what matters most when time is precious.
Because hospice care is about more than the end of life. It’s about the moments in between: the familiar song, the laughter shared between old friends, the comfort of being surrounded by family and knowing you don’t have to face the journey alone.
Through their friendship, music and generosity, John’s legacy continues to touch lives, helping ensure other families can experience the same care, comfort and compassion that meant so much to him and those who loved him.
That is the heart of Together in Gratitude: turning the love and gratitude we carry into meaningful care for others. Thank you for this meaningful gift!
