05/22/2026
All or nothing thinking is one of the most common cognitive distortions I see in relationships.
โIf they loved me, theyโd always know what I need.โ
โWe fought, so maybe weโre incompatible.โ
โThey forgot something important, so they donโt care.โ
The problem? Relationships donโt thrive in extremes.
They thrive in nuance, repair, and emotional flexibility.
Save this for the next time your brain tries to turn a hard moment into a permanent conclusion. ๐