09/21/2026
Can we learn from our mistakes?
Have you ever made a decision with the best intentions, only to end up with an outcome you later regretted?
The wrong financial investment, the wrong partner, the wrong timing, or the wrong career choice. We often say that people should learn from their mistakes. Usually, this means understanding what went wrong so that next time, you will make a different decision.
But what if you did learn from the experience and still ended up with a similar outcome?
For example, you might choose a very different partner and genuinely believe that you have learned from your previous relationship but fear of rejection may still influence what you tolerate, what you avoid discussing, and how long you stay when problems appear. The person may be different and your choices may look different, but the same underlying response can continue to shape the outcome. This is why understanding what happened may not always be enough. We may also need to understand the influences behind our decisions and behaviour before the outcome.
Understanding these underlying influences has been one of psychology’s longstanding challenges.
Read more: https://www.felixagaming.com/blog/can-we-learn-from-our-mistakes