08/12/2026
What if you stopped trying to capture the moment… and simply experienced it?
Last week I went to a concert with my daughter and I noticed there were a lot of people watching it through their phones. Recording. Taking pictures. Capturing the experience. And honestly~to each their own.
But I realized something afterwards…
I didn't reach for my phone once.
I was completely lost in the music. The talent of the artists. Every note. Every lyric. The energy of the room.
I was present.
And it felt amazing.
Maybe I'm just getting old 😂 but there was something so beautiful about not needing to capture the moment because I was too busy living it.
It also made me think about how much of our attention our devices consume and how they distract us from life.
And believe me, I'm guilty too. I doom scroll. I pick up my phone without even knowing why.
But lately, I'm trying to choose differently.
Read a book.
Spend time outside.
Connect with people.
Try something new.
People watch.
Listen to the music. Be where I actually am.
I've been reading Dopamine Nation by Dr. Anna Lembke, and it's given me some important reminders about our constant need for stimulation and how easily we can become uncomfortable with simply being, and how we are always looking for something to fill up the gaps in our lives. Devices, food, alcohol~you get my point.
But maybe life isn't supposed to feel good all the time.
Maybe we're meant to experience it all.
The joy.
The boredom.
The discomfort.
The laughter.
The quiet.
The uncertainty.
Because this is life.
And perhaps that's part of what we're practicing on the mat.
Not just flexibility.
Not just strength.
But the ability to be here.
To notice when we've wandered away and gently come back.
To our breath.
To our bodies.
To the person in front of us.
To the music.
To the sunset.
To this one, unrepeatable moment.
This is it.
So this week, I'm practicing presence.
What might you experience if you put the phone down and simply allowed yourself to be where you are?
(This pre-concert selfie is the only one I have from the night!) sades🥂