06/15/2026
Parenting a child with big emotions or challenging behaviours can bring up a lot — urgency, stress, self-doubt, and that feeling of needing to "fix" things right away.
The first step isn't about fixing the behaviour, changing it, or trying to control it. It's taking a breath, grounding yourself, and remembering that this moment is big for your child — and it might be big for you too.
From that place, grounding thoughts can help you stay connected to yourself and support your own regulation. They can gently shift your perspective so that instead of reacting or trying to make the behaviour stop, you can stay with your child through it and help them move through it.
Sometimes, a few simple reminders in the moment can make all the difference.
I've created a free Parent Grounding Guide with supportive reminders for exactly these kinds of moments.
⬇ Download it here:
https://courageous-counselling-and-play-therapy.kit.com/grounding