Diana Ten Have, Energy Intuitive & EFT Facilitator

08/14/2026

08/13/2026

Once upon a time I had a new client to come see me because of the state of the world. She was devastated about violence, wars and overall why most people were hurting each other so badly so often.
We both thought she was going to heal a past life that was effecting her perspective on today's situations.
But, something else occurred! It was the most beautiful lesson one can learn!

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08/11/2026

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08/10/2026

An absentee father creates an emotionally wounded boy. That boy grows up to become an avoidant man. And that avoidant man can end up emotionally abandoning the woman he loves, becoming more like the father who wounded him than he ever thought he would.

See, this is the part people miss. He may swear up and down, “I’ll never be like my father.” But saying that doesn’t heal the wound. If he grew up with a father who was physically gone, emotionally gone, or just never really there for him, he learns early not to expect connection. He learns to keep things in. He learns that needing somebody is dangerous. So now he gets into a relationship, and the second his partner wants more closeness, more honesty, more emotion, he starts backing up. Not because he doesn’t care. A lotta times, it’s because closeness is touching a wound he spent his whole life avoiding.

And here’s where it gets painful. The woman he loves starts feeling the same emotional absence he felt as a little boy. She’s asking, “Why won’t you talk to me? Why do I feel lonely next to you? Why do I always have to pull you in?” And he may not even realize he’s repeating the cycle. He’s not his father in every way, but emotionally, he’s recreating the same distance. That’s why healing matters. Because if you don’t heal what hurt you, you can spend your whole life becoming what you swore you hated. And healing starts when you stop defending the distance and start getting honest about the little boy underneath it.
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