09/04/2026
Your child may not be giving you their worst. They may be giving you what they have left. ❤️
All day long, that little brain has been working.
Listening. Remembering. Inhibiting. Transitioning. Problem-solving. Reading the room. Following directions. Finding words. Managing emotions. Keeping track of belongings. Figuring out what comes next.
That’s a LOT of language, cognitive load + executive functioning for a developing brain. Core executive functions include working memory, inhibitory control and cognitive flexibility, and these skills are still developing throughout childhood. 
So when your child walks through the door and falls apart because you cut their toast incorrectly…
Maybe they don’t need another demand.
Maybe they need a snack without 14 follow-up questions.
Movement. Quiet. Predictability. Connection. Play.
And maybe tonight, “home reading” looks like cuddling together while you read the book. Or listening to an audiobook while they colour or build LEGO.
That isn’t giving up on literacy. Shared book reading provides meaningful opportunities for vocabulary and language learning, and research supports its role in children’s receptive and expressive language development.  Audiobooks can similarly provide access to rich language and vocabulary. 
Sometimes the best thing we can do after a cognitively demanding day isn’t squeeze in one. more. thing.
It’s give their brain somewhere safe to land. ❤️
Save this for the first few weeks of school—and send it to the parent whose “angel at school” is currently crying because the granola bar broke in half. 😂
References:
Diamond, A. (2013). Executive functions. Annual Review of Psychology, 64, 135–168.
Dowdall, N., et al. (2020). Shared picture book reading interventions for child language development: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Child Development, 91(2), e383–e399.
Flack, Z. M., Field, A. P., & Horst, J. S. (2018). The effects of shared storybook reading on word learning: A meta-analysis. Developmental Psychology, 54(7), 1334–1346.