06/06/2026
I used to look at them and think, โWho are these people?โ ๐
Because some of the things my daughter gets away with would've never worked when I was growing up.
But real, REAL talk as a first-time mom and a therapist:
The older I get, the less I see it as grandparents being softer.
I see it as life looking different.
My parents aren't raising a child while building a life, managing responsibilities, making difficult decisions, and carrying everything they were carrying back then.
๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฒ๐ป๐ท๐ผ๐ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ.
And honestly, becoming a mom has made me realize how much context matters when we're judging the people who raised us.
One of the biggest gifts of motherhood has been seeing my parents not just as my parents, but as people.