01/19/2021
The very possibility of human life starts with touch, the intertwining of fingers as a couple walks out of a movie, the profound wordless communication of safety between a mother and a child, and the basic building blocks of love & trust are all rooted in simple human touch.
Swimming in the womb, an infant explores the extent of its own body through touch, motion and the swirls of amniotic fluid against its skin. Infants who receive regular touch from their parents or caregivers are cognitively more mature than infants who do not. Infants who do not have enough holding, touching, and play can die from a disease called "wasting". In effect, without touch, the child loses its will to live.
The first true connection with a parent or caregiver is the skin to skin contact of being held, Teenagers who are touch deprived have an increased risk of violence. Supportive touch can be healing for a marriage, and can reduce the inevitable stresses of adult life.
For older adults, touch can be a lifeline of connection and communication between family members when no words no longer come easily. From birth to death, touch plays a vital role in human development and living a happy, engaged life.
Touch can be profoundly damaging to the body and psyche, or it can lead to health, safety and healing. Both torture and kindness happen through touch. Lack of human contact can be as damaging as experiencing some of the violent and aggressive acts. The type, quality, and quantity of human touch can change the course of a life. Touch affects brain development, the expression of neurochemicals, childhood behaviour, marital satisfaction, infant-parenting bonding, and mental health over a lifetime.
Despite the wealth of data about its importance to human health, touch has been an understudied and at times even a taboo topic for physical and mental health providers. People in hospitals are often touch- deprived, and most touch they receive comes in the form of medical and often painful intervention. The isolation people feel at these times can be profound. Unfortunately, therapists often do not realize and address the impact of touch deprivation has on their clients without effectively using touch as an intervention in treatment, psychotherapists are literally leaving people out of touch with their world. This isn't a knock on psychotherapy as it's vitally important to guide a narrative. But as we see now, touch aids in guiding the internal narrative of our physiology and it's important to recognize touch for mental well - being.
Michael Charyangis, PsyD