08/05/2026
This year’s August long weekend was super busy and a bit different, but that’s a story for another day.
Every year, I’m floored that another year has zipped by every August long weekend bc it marks the very best and the very worst things in my life.
I share this every year in order to remind myself how far we’ve come AND to let others know that they aren’t alone in their journeys and struggles.
Aug 2017 long weekend started with my IUI and ended with an ER visit that led to a rollercoaster 2 months that included:
❗ 3 visits to the ER
❗ 2 hospital admissions for a total of 2 weeks in a hospital bed
❗ tons of lab tests, x-rays, ultrasounds plus 2 CT scans
❗ too many medications to count
❗ 1 NG tube - the WORST thing ever 😫
❗ Finally a diagnosis of a pelvic inflammatory disease from the IUI with a large pelvic abscess that gave me a full bowel obstruction 😳
❗ A drain installed into my pelvis for 6 weeks to clear up the infection
I eventually went on to have my IVF retrieval, followed by my laparoscopic surgery for the removal of the scar tissue and to remove my damaged Fallopian tubes from the PID & abscess. This was also when I was finally given an official diagnosis of severe endometriosis.
Aug 2018 long weekend was the serendipitous date for my FET that eventually resulted in my little A 💙 Every day, I look at him and am infinitely grateful that I get to love him and be his mama.
Aug 2022 long weekend was the due date for my Angel Baby 🤍 and it also happened to be my last FET that unfortunately wasn’t meant to be and marked the end of my own fertility journey.
So, the August long weekend always comes wrapped up in a lot of grief and reflection, but also so much joy and celebration as well.
We spent Aug 2026 long weekend visiting a dear friend and her family to spend time on their beautiful property outside of the city, which was exactly what I needed to heal my soul this year. I’m endlessly grateful for being surrounded by such a diverse support network from all seasons of my life.
What did you do this long weekend? 👇