06/15/2026
Who else wakes up at 3 or 4 a.m. and suddenly their brain decides it's time to solve all of life's problems?
I've learned firsthand how much sleep deprivation affects the brain.
When Stuart was a baby and I was breastfeeding and pumping around the clock, I accidentally put a library book into a Canada Post mailbox instead of the library return slot.
Years later, after another stretch of poor sleep, I somehow left my car running in the Costco parking lot for 40 minutes while I shopped. Thankfully, it was still there! Now I always check that I can open the trunk before walking away—my car won't let me open it if the engine is still running.
So many people are walking around sleep deprived and don't realize how much it's affecting their health.
Even short-term sleep loss can increase brain fog, cravings, stress hormones, anxiety, and weaken immunity and resilience.
One thing I hear from women in their late 30s, 40s and 50s all the time is:
"I can fall asleep, but I wake up at 3 or 4 a.m. and my mind starts racing."
For many women, it's not just stress or getting older. Hormonal changes during perimenopause and menopause can affect sleep, anxiety, blood sugar, cortisol patterns, and temperature regulation.
The good news? Sleep doesn't have to get worse with age.
Thankfully, I've come a long way since those newborn (and early perimenopause) days. With the right hormone support, a simple bedtime routine, and stress-management techniques, I honestly sleep better now than I did in my younger years.
If you're feeling tired but wired or saying, "I just don't feel like myself anymore," know that there are solutions. I can help. (link to contact me in the BIO).
What's the funniest thing you've done when sleep deprived?