07/15/2026
The wellness industry has convinced us that every decision has to be “optimized.”
Perfect sleep.
Perfect diet.
Perfect workouts.
Perfect biomarkers.
But what if health isn’t achieved by perfectionism.
Research consistently shows that sleep, nutrition and exercise matter—but so do social connection, purpose, joy and psychological wellbeing. In fact, chronic loneliness and stress are associated with increased risks of cardiovascular disease, cognitive decline and earlier mortality.
If your pursuit of health is making you:
• Cancel plans because of your sleep tracker
• Feel guilty after one dessert
• Train through pain to maintain a streak
• Become anxious about every ingredient
…it may be time to ask whether optimization has become another source of stress.
The healthiest lifestyle isn’t the one that looks perfect on paper.
It’s the one you can enjoy—and sustain—for decades.
Health should give you more life, not take you away from it.
This past week has given me some glaring reminders that life can in fact be short, and it’s caused me to pause and this - has wellness culture has gone too far that it’s actually keeping us from living?
What do you think?