Stephen D'Amico

05/10/2026

Do you remember the Great North America Blackout of 2003? You know, the one where more than 50 million North Americans found themselves without power in the dead heat of August?

I remember it vividly and with great fondness, actually. What stood out for me most was how everyone in my neighbourhood, once left without distracting electrical devices, did the unthinkable en masse. We exited our homes and—gasp!—actually talked to one another.

We made human-to-human connection. Got caught up on each other’s lives. Learned the names and stories of neighbours we’d only ever previously half-smiled at when crossing paths.

The blackout spoke to me in a deeply meaningful way for another reason. It reminded me of the blackness of our true nature. Our true nature is a blackness that is so black it is luminous. That sheen is the clear light of awareness, which is how we know that our true nature is an infinite field of shimmering black consciousness.

Just as the deep, inky velvet canvas of the night sky that allows the stars to appear as sharp, brilliant diamonds only becomes visible when the city lights fail, our inner essence often only becomes apparent when the noise of our lives is dimmed. We spend so much time focused on what the light reveals that we forget the profound, silent source from which that light emerges.

Lately, I’ve been using a simple physical act to ground myself in this realization. Every time I enter or leave a room, I treat the light switch as a sacred reminder:

When I flip the switch ON, I acknowledge that the light of my awareness which illuminates the world arises out of the mystery of consciousness at the heart of everything in existence.

When I flip the switch OFF, I settle into the same reminder as the light returns to the darkness. I honor the emptiness of my true nature, the quiet wellspring of pure potential that is always there and remains when the activity of the day ceases.

We don't need another massive power failure to find this connection again. We just need to remember that every time we reach for the switch, we take a breath and recognize the clear light of awareness when we turn the lights on, and honor the darkness of consciousness when we turn them off.

03/29/2026

FEEDBACK LOOPS

What if your thoughts aren’t just passing through you but quietly programming the very fabric of your reality?

The other night, I found myself watching my dreams emerge from the formless field of consciousness. This is a familiar place for me…but then something shifted.

The darkness itself became vivid and alive, shimmering and pulsing as though charged with electricity. It was mesmerizing like plushy, black velvet with a sparkling intelligence woven into it.

As I watched, a presence began to communicate with me—not in words, but in the symbolic language of dream images. An invisible hand reached into this iridescent ocean of being, pulling out faintly colored strips of cloth, only to dip them back in again.

At first, I thought the cloth was being dyed by the water. But slowly, it became clear: something essential in the cloth was dissolving into the ocean.

To help me understand, I was given a striking impression. The cloth was like an old computer punch card. Each time it was submerged, it was inputting data into the very source of existence…data that would later express itself as the outputs of life.

This dream has practical implications. Think about how different your day feels when you wake up, and first thing, decide to replay worries or frustrations. The same interactions feel heavier, and small inconveniences stack quickly.

But on days when we wake up with an intention of openness or trust, life often seems to meet us differently. People are easier to be with, things flow more smoothly, and even challenges feel more workable.

I woke soon after with the realization that while our thoughts and intentions are constantly arising from consciousness, they also return to it, continuously shaping reality.

I’ve had this realization before, but this time, it felt so alive—visceral, poetic, intimate, and beautiful all at the same time.

So the question becomes: What are you quietly feeding back into the field? What is your thinking becoming? And if we zoom out a little, what kind of world are we each helping to shape, moment by moment?

03/22/2026

THRESHOLDS

Ever walk into a room with focused intention only to stop mid-step and think… wait, why am I here again? It feels like a small, almost comical glitch. We pause, look around, and try to piece together what we came for.

But in that pause, something interesting happens: we become aware. Not of the task, but of ourselves. Standing there, present. A little disoriented, maybe… but also a little bit more awake.

What if those moments aren’t failures of memory at all, but small invitations to return to the invisible essence of ourselves? These are “threshold moments.” Opportunities to remember our true nature.

Every time you cross a threshold, quietly remind yourself: “I am already awake as awareness itself.” Over time, this builds a continuity of presence that diminishes those long stretches of spiritual forgetfulness.

Start with doorways. Lightly touch the side of the frame with your fingertips. Let that tactile sensation be the reminder that pulls you from your thoughts and awakens the presence of pure being.

Once you master the physical threshold, expand it to every transition. Each shift becomes a chance to practice this ancient art of remembering not to forget:

Feeling the shift in temperature as you step outside. Remember.

Pausing after you sit in the car but before you turn the key. Remember.

Noticing the moment your body settles into a chair. Remember.

Reaching for your phone—especially then. Remember again.

And when the phone rings, pause. Take a breath, drop your shoulders, and smile from your true nature, from that part of you that is always already aware, just waiting for you to check in and remember the stillness we all share.

03/14/2026

INNER WORK & AWAKENING

There is a common myth in spiritual circles that if we just "let go" enough, God or the Universe will do the heavy lifting for us. But the truth is that a liberated life doesn't just happen. It’s enacted minute-by-minute.

Ever notice how we often seem to reflect on our lives after a major breakup or during a week away on vacation? These gaps in our routine reveal a hard truth: our "default" mode is often a rigid cage of conditioning.

If we want to break free from that prison into a state of spontaneous freedom, we have to stop waiting for it to "simply happen." Transformation is an active process—one that requires both a mirror and a window.

The Two Modes of Awareness
Think of your awareness as a lens that functions as a mirror and a window. Both modes are needed to do the two complimentary forms of self-inquiry at the heart of living a liberated life: reflection and recognition.

Reflection Mode (The Mirror)
When awareness acts like a mirror, we observe ourselves without judgment. This allows us to look objectively at our thoughts and feelings so we can deconstruct the rigid ego structures that keep us stuck.

This form of self-inquiry is led by the question: Why am I the way I am? The goal is to make the ego flexible so our true nature has a clear channel to express itself.

Recognition Mode (The Window)
The same awareness that reflects is also like a window that allows the clear light of being to shine through us. Our awareness arises out of our beingness. It is what allows us to know that we exist, and when we dwell on our own beingness, we return to the source of existence.

This form of self-inquiry is led by the question: Who am I? The goal is to recognize that at the deepest level, everything—including the patterns of our ego—is simply a manifestation of being.

The Stained-Glass Analogy
Think of your true nature as pure light and your personality as a stained-glass window. When our conditioning is rigid, the glass is thick and fixed, and the light is trapped in the same repetitive shapes. But as we do the work, the glass itself begins to lose its density. It becomes more like liquid—fluid, transparent, and shifting.

Your history and personality don't disappear, but they stop being a cage. They become unchained and malleable which allows the spontaneity of being to flow through you in a more dynamic way. You move from the prison of having a fixed identity into the freedom of a living, breathing expression of your true nature.

Join Me This Sunday
If you are ready to move from an intellectual understanding to direct experience, I invite you to join my upcoming session with Open Circle. We will explore these themes together and dive deeper into the practice of recognition and integration.

When: This Sunday, March 15th, from 12 PM – 2 PM ET (9 AM PT).

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Everything you ever wanted to know about spiritual liberation but never had an enlightened friend to ask! In this session, we’ll begin with a grounding and uplifting guided meditation and then move into a clear…

03/11/2026

03/08/2026

YOUR NOSE KNOWS!

If someone walked into the room and found you staring cross-eyed at the tip of your nose, they might reasonably assume you’ve finally lost it. In the world of yoga, however, you’d simply be practicing a classic, surprisingly powerful meditation technique called Nasikagra Drishti.

Nose Tip Gazing is a form of Trataka, a traditional meditation in which you focus steadily on a single point, often the tip of a candle flame or a small dot called a bindu, or in this case, the humble nose that’s conveniently located right in the middle of your face and available 24/7. Simple as it sounds, this practice can lead to a profound sense of calm and heightened self-awareness.

The nose is one of the most accessible anchors in meditation. First, breathing through the nose naturally calms the nervous system, soothing both mind and body while gently guiding awareness inward. Feeling the cool air passing through the nostrils is also a built-in reminder to return to the present whenever the mind wanders (which, let’s be honest, it loves to do).

What's more, there's a fascinating physiological "hack" at play. Fixing the gaze on the tip of the nose lightly engages the eye muscles in a way that stimulates the vagus nerve through a mechanism called oculocardiac convergence. This connection between the eyes and the heart aids in slowing the heart rate and promoting a deeply relaxed state.

The "X" Marks the Spot: When you gently cross your eyes and focus on the tip of the nose, you will notice a distinct visual effect. The overlapping sides of the nose create an Λ shape in the lower field of vision, while the bridge of the nose forms a subtler V shape above it. Together they resemble an X-like pattern that acts as a natural focal point for concentration.

Try it for 30 seconds: Begin by gently directing your gaze toward the tip of your nose and allowing the shapes to appear naturally without straining. Bring your attention to the center point where the lines intersect, almost like the crosshairs of a scope sharpening your focus. If a soft silvery or luminous quality appears around the point, observe it without trying to influence or change it.

After approximately ten seconds, relax your eyes and allow your gaze to soften, looking gently past the nose without fixating on anything in the room. Just let your awareness become aware of itself, which allows the quiet clarity of being to arise. If your mind wanders, return to the cool sensation of breath at the nostrils for a few beats (your ever-present anchor).

If you feel a sense of heightened awareness, stay present and enjoy the experience. And if nothing extraordinary happens at all, that’s okay too. At the very least, you’ve spent some time breathing mindfully…and perhaps appreciating your nose for something other than holding up your glasses.

03/01/2026

HOLY MASKS

Years ago, when I first began teaching, someone offered to “package” me—dress me in traditional robes, give me a guru’s name, and cultivate a mystical aloofness. He insisted I’d be taken more seriously if I appeared holy. I declined. That persona wasn’t me.

I’ve had an awakening that reshaped how I see reality, and I care deeply about sharing what I’ve learned. But I still chop wood and carry water. I still feel anger at injustice. I still sometimes grumble when my wife leaves every light on in the house like we’re guiding ships safely to shore. I have experience in my field, yes, and an ideal I aim toward. But I’m still learning. And I teach from there.

Over time, it’s become obvious that many teachers struggle under the weight of the image they feel compelled to uphold. On stage, they may speak beautifully about compassion and transcendence; in private, they wrestle with the same emotions and wounds as anyone else. The gap between persona and person can be painful to witness, especially when we’ve projected perfection onto them.

That projection is part of the problem. We create an ideal of the “enlightened” human and then feel betrayed when teachers turn out to be human: reactive, imperfect, still growing. We need to stop putting people on pedestals. And teachers need to stop pretending they belong there.

At the same time, spiritual teachers do carry responsibility. Like any professional, they should embody the values they teach. Integrity matters. Dignity matters. Teaching is meant to point toward an ideal and inspire growth. But professionalism is not perfectionism. It doesn’t require suppressing one’s humanity or projecting infallibility.

In fact, the most trustworthy teachers are those who can admit where they struggle. Not as a display of vulnerability, but simply by being honest. A mature teacher doesn’t hide behind a two-dimensional facade; they allow themselves to be dynamic, evolving, and real.

Enlightenment, if it means anything, should look less like holiness and more like authenticity. It is choosing essence over ego: the freedom of not having to defend an image. When we drop the facade, we free not only ourselves, but those who learn from us. And in that shared humanity, something far more real and sustainable can grow.

02/22/2026

NO SELF IS NO EXCUSE

The 2026 Epstein files have sent shockwaves through the spiritual world, with Deepak Chopra under intense scrutiny after the revelation of his years of correspondence and association with the convicted predator.

Beneath the headlines lies a sobering truth: nobody is immune from moral corruption. We must dispel the myth that spiritual awakening automatically produces ethical maturity. It doesn’t. The files reveal Chopra's statement to Epstein that "God is a construct" while emphasizing that "cute girls are real." This is the ultimate example of using high-level metaphysics to rationalize low-level behavior.

For decades, numerous contemporary spiritual teachers have amplified a sloganized version of nonduality, encapsulated in phrases like “There is no self” and “Nothing is real.” Traditionally, these higher teachings were reserved for morally upright practitioners. Today, they frequently serve as shields for misconduct by inexperienced or fraudulent gurus.

Neglecting the subconscious can cause nondual insight to bolster the ego instead of dismantling it, resulting in spiritual bypassing, ego inflation, and subsequent harm. Genuine wisdom requires a constant awareness of how our actions affect others and a radical willingness to remain accountable for them.

This is why shadow work and psychological integration are vital for seekers and teachers alike. Blind spots don’t vanish just because one glimpses the absolute. Insight must be paired with the cultivation of self-reflection and conscience.

Earlier this year, Chopra launched an AI version of himself. When asked about the allegations, it deflects an honest answer with spiritual platitudes. Even 'Digital Deepak' can’t compute the gap between insight and integrity. This demands a noble heart and a moral compass, traits notably absent in both Chopra and his chatbot.

02/15/2026

IS EVIL REAL?

Many of us have been carrying a quiet heaviness in our hearts for a while now. Each time we read the news or witness another story of violence or cruelty, something deep inside us winces.

In times like these, it’s only natural to wonder: Does evil actually exist? And if so, where does it come from?

At its root, evil is what happens when we surrender completely to our lower nature while silencing our higher one.

Our lower nature isn’t bad. It’s instinctual and part of being human. It wants to survive. It seeks security, pleasure, agency, and some sense of control in an unpredictable world. There’s nothing inherently wrong with that.

But without the steady guidance of our higher nature—conscience, empathy, wisdom, restraint—those lower drives can twist into ugly forms: greed, cruelty, and violence. And when the higher voice is muted long enough, the balance tips. That’s when evil begins to take shape.

The evil we see “out there” in global headlines is a stark reminder that its seed also lives within us. It shows up in subtle moments: when we choose reaction over reflection or resentment over understanding.

Whenever things become totally unbalanced, whether personally or globally, the invitation is the same. Not to despair, numb out, or harden—but to return. To listen for the higher voice. To let conscience interrupt impulse. To allow empathy to soften certainty.

The world may feel turbulent, but the real work of healing begins within. Each time we heed our higher nature, we restore a little balance, both inside ourselves and in the shared field we all inhabit.

May we each find the courage, especially now, to choose the higher voice within us.

02/08/2026

LOOK MA, NO HANDS!

Years ago, I was hired as a liaison between a law firm and a mediation NGO. They were co-hosting a national Peace and Conflict Resolution conference. Ironically, the relationship had fragmented so badly that one side was threatening legal action. Guess which one? The atmosphere was tense, to say the least, with very little room for missteps!

To steady myself, I turned my bike commute into a meditation. For twenty minutes each morning, I practiced riding no hands the entire way. By the end of the week, I could anticipate every traffic light and negotiate the entire route without touching my handlebars. This daily ritual cultivated the inner balance I needed to walk into charged rooms without losing my centre.

We can apply this same principle to everyday life. When we intentionally slow down and become present, we create the conditions for riding through life hands-free. We move into a natural flow state, guided less by rigid control and more by inner wisdom.

Of course, no ride is ever perfectly smooth. There will always be metaphorical bumps in the road: old habits resurfacing, emotional reactions arising, conflicts spiking. But there’s no need to panic. These are simply moments when it’s helpful to reach for the handlebars and guide ourselves with care.

This means pausing instead of reacting, noticing what’s arising in the body, and reflecting just enough to stay aligned. We still feel our feelings fully, but without acting out familiar patterns. This kind of careful steering helps the nervous system stay regulated and prevents old control strategies from taking over.

As this becomes familiar, the need to hold on naturally decreases. Balance returns. Our grip loosens. And the ride continues with greater ease. Over time, life teaches us when to hold on and when it’s safe to let go.

Here’s to steady hands-free living and a more fluid, responsive, and alive ride! See you out on the road, my friends.

02/01/2026

ENLIGHTENMENT NOW!

This morning, I was standing in my kitchen waiting for the kettle to boil. Phone in hand. Mind already racing ahead to the day. Out of habit, my thumb almost started scrolling.

Do you know that moment?

Then something inside urged me to pause and look up instead. A smile came to my lips as I noticed the morning light spill across the floor.

I took a deep breath…one I hadn’t realized I’d been holding. For a long moment, nothing was missing. Life felt whole and quietly alive.

It’s striking how rare these moments seem, yet how effortlessly they appear when we stop chasing the next moment and let ourselves settle into this one.

This very moment, so simple and complete, waits patiently for our attention.

When we do settle and become present, a natural ease emerges. Our bodies relax, our mind loosens its grip on overthinking. And a gentle miracle unfolds.

Presence carries its own sweetness, which blooms naturally, without effort, sometimes opening into bliss. Nothing in this moment needs to be added or fixed.

Being itself is enough.

In this natural state, the world begins to speak again. Leaves whisper as they dance in the wind. Birdsong offers itself freely to the morning air. Sunlight rests on the skin like a blessing.

These moments are not separate from us. We feel them in the heart. The sense of “me” as separate from everyone and everything dissolves a little, and a quiet oneness emerges. A deeper remembering that we belong to all of this.

And from this remembering, gratitude flows effortlessly. Gratitude for our breath. For life itself. Even clarity can spring to life: solutions to problems, creative ideas and insights about things we’ve been struggling with. All because we took a few moments to appreciate the simple, sacred beauty of being alive, right here, right now.

These small pauses are doorways to your very essence. Available now—and now. No heavy lifting required.