06/08/2026
Staying really busy feels productive. But for a lot of us, it is hiding something. When you never slow down, you avoid feeling what is going on inside you. I know this because I lived it. I filled every hour, chased every task, and told myself I was getting ahead.
What I was actually doing was avoiding the harder work. The work of growing up emotionally. The work of facing the parts of myself I did not want to look at. Busyness became the perfect excuse to never sit still long enough to see the bigger picture and change.
Emotional maturity does not happen on the run. Personal growth does not wait politely until your schedule clears. They both require you to stop, feel, and pay attention. So ask yourself honestly, what are you really avoiding by being so busy.
A couple of years ago I made a big change. I started working less, to the point of feeling bored at times. After running Moose Anger Management for 31 years, juggling tough family dynamics, a couple of divorces, being a part-time single dad, dealing with burnout, marathon training, soccer coaching, constant learning, and much more, I thought being busy was the key to success. I believed I had to work hard continually just to keep things afloat financially.
Then something shifted. Thanks to my amazing business partner Alejandra , we started hiring a team to support our mission. It was unsettling at first, but suddenly I had more time on my hands.
I have meditated daily for years, but it was not until this extra time appeared that I saw how constant busyness had been holding back my emotional and spiritual growth. đ§ââď¸â¨
My advice? Give yourself the gift of doing nothing every now and then. You might be surprised by what you learn in that stillness.
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