12/24/2025
To every nurse, paramedic, police officer, firefighter, dispatcher, security staff, physician, and healthcare worker spending Christmas on shift, I’m thinking of you. 🩺🚨
I’ve worked these shifts too.
I remember walking into psych emergency on Christmas eve with that strange mix of duty, heaviness, pride, and grief sitting in my chest.
Everyone else talked about family dinners, niche buena, and holiday plans…
And I just quietly thought, “I’ll be at work. Again.”
I remember the stale cookies in the staff room. The alarms. The de-escalations. The tears: sometimes theirs, sometimes almost mine.
The feeling of stepping outside after a long shift into an empty, quiet night while the rest of the world celebrated.
If you’re working tonight, I know the weight you’re carrying.
The moments you’re missing. The emotional whiplash. The guilt. The numbness. The pride. The ache that no one sees but you.
You don’t have to pretend this is easy.
And you don’t have to carry all of it alone.
If this season feels heavy, I’m here. Not just as a therapist, but as someone who’s lived that version of Christmas too.
Take care of yourself tonight.
You deserve gentleness too. 💖
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