Resurrecting the Male Divine

Resurrecting the Male Divine Masculine Development | Intimacy Coach | Men’s Groups
A Support & Accountability Model for Men

Seamus trained at the London School of Tao in Sexual Kung Fu, Chi Nei Tsang, Chi Gung, and Taoist Shamanism. He works primarily with men who want to strengthen their presence, deepen intimacy, and lead in their relationships with clarity and integrity. His work integrates the Wheel of Consent, conflict navigation skills, archetypal roles, masculine and feminine dynamics, and values-based relations

hip frameworks. Seamus helps men develop emotional awareness without losing strength — building grounded confidence rather than reactive control. He believes strong relationships are built by strong men — men who know their values, communicate directly, take responsibility for their patterns, and are willing to grow. His coaching supports men in breaking repetitive relationship cycles, developing polarity with depth, and creating connections rooted in respect rather than performance. In addition to his embodiment training, Seamus has held senior global consulting and leadership roles working with Fortune 500 organizations. Operating in high-stakes environments and leading complex initiatives has refined his ability to make clear decisions, hold steady under pressure, and guide others through challenge and change. This leadership background informs his coaching style — structured, honest, and accountable. Seamus is currently part of a close men’s group in Victoria, BC, and has previously led men’s groups in Vancouver and London, UK. He has attended advanced Tantra, Taoist, and meditation retreats and has taught Reiki to hundreds of students over more than 15 years. Private 1-on-1 coaching is available for men ready to elevate their relationships, strengthen their masculine core, and build a partnership aligned with their deeper values and vision.

SENSUAL CURIOSITYCuriosity is one of the most important elements of vitality. It helps keep us interested and interestin...
08/21/2026

SENSUAL CURIOSITY

Curiosity is one of the most important elements of vitality. It helps keep us interested and interesting.

In a relationship it's one of the qualities that contribute to fulfillment.

And in our sensuality and s*xuality it's just so important.

Sensual curiosity is about sensation and feeling.
Sensual curiosity is about emotion.
Sensual curiosity is about exploration.
It's about growing, expanding and learning.
It's about going beyond what we know and beyond what we do.

Curiosity has the energy of willingness to take us beyond boundaries, and even beyond judgements.

It's nature is fun, light and playful. It's filled with the delight of discovery. It revels in the absurd and the laughter that brings.

It's vibrant, throbbing and alive.

In the space of curiosity there is no failure, there is no pressure to be right, to get things right.

There is the moment. There is seeing how this feels, tastes, smells.
There is creativity, refinement and engagement.

And there is presence.

So much of myself present in the exploration, in the paths that open, the ways that are revealed, the possibilities that emerge.

And there is pleasure.

Endless pleasure and excitement.
There is the sensuality of life, of being.

And more, there is love.

For curiosity takes us to where we see connection, the threads that link us rather than the barriers that separate us.

And yet more, there is spirit.
For curiosity takes us to the heart, the essence, deep.

Curiosity shows us the endless realm of sensuality with thefullness of the joy and celebration of all that is human.

~Jonti Searll

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I want the dangerousness of a love so ripe, it transforms every cell of my body.Subtle, careful, half-hearted loves nee...
08/19/2026

I want the dangerousness of a love so ripe, it transforms every cell of my body.

Subtle, careful, half-hearted loves need not apply.

I want a love that’s as real as the dirt beneath my toes, as glorious as the mossy forest floor, as beautiful as a plump, blushing strawberry.

I want a love that’s ready to get his hands muddy and bare his whole goddamn heart.

I crave a love that’s beautiful because its raw, unpeeled and unafraid of its own roarin’ intensity.

I’m tired of dipping my toes timidly into love’s waters—I want to swim in it, to bask in it—I want it to surround me like a cloud of just-opened wildflowers, like fireworks, like a thrashing ocean of honey.

And love, I want you—

To challenge me.

Lead me right out of my comfort zone,

Rip my bullsh*t to bits,

Look me right in the goddamn eyes,

Water the thirsty buds in my soul with the wild thunderstorms of your beautiful heart.

Drink me up like a cherry-vanilla smoothie

And light me on f*cking fire with your smile.

No half measures, no tiptoeing around the truth, no timid mind games—

Come on, let’s do this—for real.

Subtle, careful, half-hearted loves need not apply.

Don’t hold back.

Take my hand, pull me close, embrace me—not carefully, not subtly—touch me confidently, intentionally, playfully.

Your hand tightly woven in mine, your lips tasting my lips, your fingers stirring the dusty strings of my heart,

My head resting on your neck as we sit on the emerald forest floor,

Our feet sopping wet with dew, laughing ’til the sun tucks itself behind the trees.

Don’t hold back.

Make love to me with the loud passionate bangs of a trombone.

Don’t hold back—

Why ever would you hold back?

Holding back is exhausting, it’s too calculated—it’s bullsh*t.

Don’t hold back.

Tell me everything that’s running through your mind.

Crash on my shores like waves, spill onto my skin, reach into my soul like a vine.

I’ll go off in your arms like a firework—I’ll bloom in your presence like a wild rose.

I want you—

All of you.

Every drop of your presence is required.

I won’t accept anything less.

Don’t hold back.

Take me to Jupiter with that mysterious glint in your eyes,

Let’s land on the edge of the crescent moon, as our bodies dance in glorious ecstasy together.

Let’s inhale together…and exhale,

Together—

Our chests rising and falling to the drumming dance of our excited heartbeats, as we soak up the glistening rays of the afternoon sun filtered through the majestic evergreens.

Don’t hold back.

Kiss me like you mean it—kiss me like you could die tomorrow.

And I’ll look into your eyes like you’re the most fascinating story in the world,

Because you are.

So let’s write this chapter, together—let’s weave these words like ivy and craft them into the budding love of a lifetime.

And let this love scare the sh*t out of us, let it set us madly on fire, let it shake us down to the juicy core

Let this love be the love that slaps us awake

And makes us question

Every damn thing

We thought

Was real.

I want you—all of you.

Every last drop of your presence is required,

I won’t accept anything less.

Don’t hold back.

Subtle, careful, half-hearted loves need not apply.

I want the dangerousness of a love so ripe, it transforms every cell of my body.

~Sarah Harvey

Source - Erotic Creators
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"When he is the living embodiment of raw eroticism of gentleness." Not in the sense of weakness or passivity, but of a ...
08/17/2026

"When he is the living embodiment of raw eroticism of gentleness." Not in the sense of weakness or passivity, but of a gentleness permeated by strength. A presence that says: I could destroy, but I prefer to open myself up. An energy that knows how to hold and melt. I believe we men have been conditioned for centuries to think that the most masculine must be rough, hard, aggressive, dominant.

And I believe we live today in a time when this hardness is losing its appeal. The world is tired of patriarchy. It's tired of power. Roughness tastes stale. And somehow, it's wrong. I believe we are just opening ourselves up to a different kind of strength:
To the raw eroticism of gentleness.
To patience, gentleness, emotional intelligence, a watchful heart.

To the erotic power of a man who is present, gentle, and conscious. And yes, this also shows up in s*x. Because a woman's body can only experience limited pleasure through pure roughness. To reach deeper, more ecstatic states, she needs a partner who: Is slow
Is gentle
Is tender
Is patient
Is secure
And completely present

There are deeper levels of pleasure that can only be reached when a man can maintain the balance between gentleness and strength. When he can pendulate.

Between pe*******on and surrender.
Between clarity and tenderness.
That's the art.

And it's honestly the most masculine thing I can imagine.

~ Joe Turan

Source - Ancestral healing
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THE SLOWER YOU GO, THE MORE AROUSED SHE BECOMESA woman’s desire is like a flame—it doesn’t ignite in an instant; it need...
08/16/2026

THE SLOWER YOU GO, THE MORE AROUSED SHE BECOMES

A woman’s desire is like a flame—it doesn’t ignite in an instant; it needs warmth, patience, and tender care. She is aroused by love, not just lust.

Lust is rushed, fleeting, and selfish. Love is slow, intentional, and deeply fulfilling.

The masculine is quick to respond—his arousal is visual, external, and immediate. But to truly connect with his woman, he must match her rhythm, honor her pace, and embrace the beauty of her unfolding desire.

A man who loves her will take his time—not because he has to, but because he wants to. He understands that her pleasure is not a race, but a journey, and he is eager to explore every part of her with devotion.

He holds her close, kisses her softly, not just to excite her, but to remind her she is cherished. His touch is gentle yet firm, reassuring yet electrifying. He whispers affirmations into her ear, not just to seduce her, but to make her feel safe, adored, and desired.

He doesn’t rush—he lingers. He watches the way her breath changes, listens to the way her body responds. He waits for her to crave him, to pull him closer, to beg for the love he’s so eager to give.

A man who truly loves a woman doesn’t just seek to take—he seeks to give. He wants to feel her melt in his hands, surrendering completely, trusting that he will take her where she’s never been before.

His love is patient. His presence is unwavering. He does not simply make love to her body—he awakens her soul.

And when their bodies finally meet, it is not just an act—it is an offering, a sacred moment, a dance of divine energy.

The slower he moves, the deeper she feels. And when he finally takes her to the peak of pleasure, she doesn’t just feel satisfied—she feels worshipped, adored, and completely consumed by love.

Because a man who truly loves his woman doesn’t just aim to pleasure her—he aims to take her beyond the stars.

YOU DESERVE TO BE SEDUCED WITH LOVE.

YOU DESERVE TO BE WORSHIPPED WITH PASSION.

YOU DESERVE TO BE TAKEN TO ECSTASY WITH PATIENCE AND DEVOTION.

YOU DESERVE TO EXPERIENCE HEALING, LOVE-FILLED, SOUL-AWAKENING S*X.

~Darryle Holloway-Hughes
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Expectations and PossibilitiesHow much of what we feel during s*x, during touch, during pleasure is what we expect to fe...
08/14/2026

Expectations and Possibilities

How much of what we feel during s*x, during touch, during pleasure is what we expect to feel?

And because we expect it to feel that way, that's what we feel.

Because it's felt that way before.

We've felt that way before.

Last time and the time before and the time before.

Probably for a long time.

They're good feelings, good sensations.

And they're often the same.

Because we, our bodies and our minds, are patterned.

We do the same things in the same way.

We touch in the same way, we kiss in the same way, we lick in the same way, we… in the same way.

And then we expect it to feel as it does, so it does.

Between the expectation and the pattern it's the same.

There's nothing wrong with that.

It's just limited.

And in time we do limited less.

It could be exciting.

It could be an adventure, an endless, limitless adventure.

It could be an exploration that takes us deep into the possibilities of sensation.

And because the patterns run so deeply, we're not always of the possibilities, of how we could feel, of the intensity, the deliciousness, the subtlety of sensation, of feeling.

We need to do different and we need to be different.

They're linked.

As we do different, we can be different, and as we be different we can do different.

We need to move from expectation to intention.

The mind and the body are one.

As we create an intention in the mind we open the body to possibility.

As the body experiences something different the mind expands.

Then there's learning, exploration.

How can we do differently, what can we do?

As we go deeper into that we can access a part of the mind that's more creative, more intuitive, more inspired.

And we can expand sensation.

We become more present in the body, more aware of what we're feeling. We can stay with the feelings more. We can follow them. We can explore them.

And we can feel them.

The power is in the feeling.

And the feeling of pleasure, deep pleasure is expansive, creative, energizing, vital, connecting.

Connecting us to ourselves, to another, to life.

~Jonti Searll

*xuality *xuality

To stay in the river of love, you must trust the current, even though you don’t know where it takes you. You have to sur...
07/20/2026

To stay in the river of love, you must trust the current, even though you don’t know where it takes you. You have to surrender, to be okay with not knowing. Love happens only now in this moment.

This is the river. It is always moving, never static. It requires us only to be present, aware, and willing. You cannot anticipate what love will need or know how you will meet that need any more than you can anticipate and know how to meet your own needs. Life is in constant motion. Needs are perpetually shifting and changing.

The river is always unpredictable. Sometimes, it flows peacefully in the moonlight. And sometimes, the wind picks up, and waves dance madly, catching the sunlight as they hit the rocks, spawning countless rainbows.

Love is also unpredictable.

Do you think you can know what you need or what love needs? No, it is not possible, any more than it is possible for the river to stay calm when the wind picks up. All is energy. All is movement. All is surrender.

Love needs this freedom and devotion in every moment or its dance will end. Resist the movement of water and wind, when love comes as a gift and you will emerge from the river tired and bruised. Such is the likely end of any love in which the lovers attempt to direct or take control.

So we must learn to breathe now as we swim even though our heads occasionally go under water. We must learn to blow the water out of our mouths and catch our breath just in time. We must learn how to handle the unexpected challenges and the moments when we are pushed beyond our comfort zone.

True lovers learn to do the dance that love asks them to do, because they know that they have no choice. They cannot stop their love any more than they could begin it.

Love is and will always be a mystery.

We do not know how it comes and goes. Beginnings and endings - if they exist at all - are not up to us. Some people do not understand.

They think they get to say “Yes” or “No” to the call of love.

They are completely deluded.

No one who has ever loved deeply and truly has ever had such a choice.

Katie Kamara

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The most profound and accurate description I've ever heard of a truly healthy, masculine man is:"When he is the living e...
07/19/2026

The most profound and accurate description I've ever heard of a truly healthy, masculine man is:

"When he is the living embodiment of raw eroticism of gentleness."

Not in the sense of weakness or passivity, but of a gentleness permeated by strength. A presence that says: I could destroy, but I prefer to open myself up. An energy that knows how to hold and melt. I believe we men have been conditioned for centuries to think that the most masculine must be rough, hard, aggressive, dominant.

And I believe we live today in a time when this hardness is losing its appeal. The world is tired of patriarchy. It's tired of power. Roughness tastes stale. And somehow, it's wrong. I believe we are just opening ourselves up to a different kind of strength:
To the raw eroticism of gentleness.
To patience, gentleness, emotional intelligence, a watchful heart.

To the erotic power of a man who is present, gentle, and conscious. And yes, this also shows up in s*x. Because a woman's body can only experience limited pleasure through pure roughness. To reach deeper, more ecstatic states, she needs a partner who:

Is slow
Is gentle
Is tender
Is patient
Is secure
And completely present

There are deeper levels of pleasure that can only be reached when a man can maintain the balance between gentleness and strength. When he can pendulate.

Between pe*******on and surrender.
Between clarity and tenderness.

That's the art.

And it's honestly the most masculine thing I can imagine.

~ Joe Turan

*xuality *xuality

Soft S*xIt’s a softening, a softening into your body, your heart, your ge****ls, into your partner, into the moment, int...
07/18/2026

Soft S*x

It’s a softening, a softening into your body, your heart, your ge****ls, into your partner, into the moment, into the energy.

There’s a tenderness here.

I love that word.

It’s an opening, a surrender.

There’s an honoring in tenderness, in the way we look at each other, the way we touch, the way we hold each other.

There’s care in tenderness.

Soft s*x allows us to feel.

When we soften we come to stillness, and in stillness, in stillness, in stillness we feel the pulsation of life. We feel our own bodies, hearts. We feel ourselves pulsing, throbbing.

In stillness we feel our partner’s pulsation.

And in stillness there comes a resonance in our pulsation. One energy.

In soft s*x there’s a melting, into each other.

It’s one of the reasons we have s*x, oneness, we’re looking for that, intimacy, connection.

Into oneness, even for a moment.

And energy, one of the ways we feel our energy during s*x is in the softness, in the stillness.

Sit opposite your partner.

Breathe.

Into your heart.

Look into each other’s eyes.

And soften.

Soften into your breath, your heart, your eyes.

Energy can move in softness.

Energy from your heart to theirs, from your eyes to theirs, from your breath to theirs.

It flows naturally when there’s softness.

You don’t have to do anything else.

Spend time here.

Feel.

As you soften, you welcome their energy.

You’re penetrated by it.

This energy carries love, it’s a natural frequency.

The more you soften, the more you feel.

The more flows.

Come together in union, in a position that is comfortable for both of you.

A position that allows you to relax deeply, fully.

Yab Yum is good, find what works for you.

Extra lubrication helps with this experience.

Move slowly.

The energy is in the slow.

The sensation is in slow.

The feeling is in the slow.

Stop.

Breathe.

Your body will soften.

Soften even more as you breathe.

Let go.

Melt.

Relax.

Into yourself, into the moment, into each other.

Soften your pelvic floor muscles.

Soften your ge****ls.

Soften your belly.

Soften your jaw.

Soften your a**s.

In the softness the energy of your s*x spreads through your body, your whole body.

In the softness your body melts into your lover’s.

In the softness your body disappears.

And all you are is energy, pulsation.

Love.

Life.

The ecstasy of being.


You’ll come back.

Don’t talk, for a while.

Allow what’s there to be there.

It’s all love.

~Jonti Searll
Artist: unknown

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A Ritual Of Offering There is such power in ritual in a relationship.It's an experience of consciousness, of presence. I...
07/17/2026

A Ritual Of Offering

There is such power in ritual in a relationship.

It's an experience of consciousness, of presence.

In this space we come together with an intention.

We come into intimacy, we come into our hearts, we come into our bodies.

In ritual, whatever it may be, we come into a space that's separate from everything else we do.

In this awareness we're allowing ourselves to share in an act and time of devotion.

In our love, in our desire, in our sharing we create an energy, a frequency rich with the gifts of possibility.

In the preparation for a ritual we begin to step into a different world.

We go within ourselves to connect deeper with another.

We open our hearts.

We open our bodies.

We open our energy.

We reveal ourselves, our sacred selves.

We look deep, deeper into each other.

We see with eyes beyond our eyes.

We breathe with breath that goes beyond our body.

Intensity.

A sharing that allows us to explore, express so many aspects of ourselves from the God and Goddess to the exquisite savagery of tearing all pretence away to reveal the depth of desire.

There are so many rituals in the world of sensuality, s*xuality, intimacy and sacredness from many traditions.

And there are rituals that we create.

This is a ritual of offering.

It's an incredibly beautiful experience to offer any of yourself to your lover.

It's vulnerable and powerful.

It's giving and receiving in a way that we become one with the flow of energy between us.

Create a space.

Warmth is vital.

The physical elements are whatever is important, candles, incense, flowers, crystals, food, music…

As you create the space bring your attention inward.

Greet your lover.

Look into each other's eyes.

Breathe into your heart, breathe out your heart.

Put your hand on their heart as they do the same for you.

Feel your hand sinking into them as you open to theirs.

Breathe.

Offer something of yourself to your lover.

It could be a hand to hold, it could be your mouth to kiss, it could be your chest to lean against, it could be your breast to suck, it could be the union of your s*x, it could be a gift of pleasure, it could be a massage, it could be a dance, it could be your breath, it could be anything.

It's an offering, a conscious offering.

I open myself to you.

I open myself to receive you.

There's worship in this moment.

There's gratitude for what we offer.

There's an intimacy that deepens the space between us, expands us, heals us.

It may be that you reciprocate in the ritual and it may be that each experience is for one of you.

It may be that you use the ritual to explore the parts of you that you don't touch, that you don't share.

It may be that you use the ritual to be so gentle with each other.

And it may be that you use the ritual to explore the fire within you.

Offer yourself to your lover.

~Jonti Searll
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There are rare loves…not the kind you name with ease,not the kind you find in songsor moviesor on timelines of things, b...
07/16/2026

There are rare loves…

not the kind you name with ease,
not the kind you find in songs
or movies
or on timelines of things,
but the kind that cracks your ribs
wide open
and shows you the machinery
of meaning.

Loves that make you see the world differently…
not as it is,
but as it truly always was

Threads of symbol,
veins of myth
woven through sidewalks and the dandelions that survive them
and skin and the marks it carries through the stories and seasons of the soul

The kind that change how we walk through this landscape of longing
not above it,
not below it,
within it…

Love like that doesn’t just feel…

it reveals.

Eros.
Agape.
Philia.
Storge.
They rarely sit at the same table.
But when they do sup upon the same sustenance…
The fruits of one soul baring them all in a single gaze,
it’s not just love,
Not the way it is written..
It is the longing
The fantasy
The fallacy
The phantoms of desire
It’s lightning….both illuminating and striking, that cracks the great oak wide open and sets the forest floor ablaze

A cutting clean through the crust of conditioning,
through fantasy,
through the fallacies of who we think we’re supposed to be.

And embracing them as a part of this menagerie of meaning

At the center of that strike,
there is no burning of what is true
Only grace.
Gnosis.
A sacred recognition.

The Self, meeting the mirror of another,
and pouring out…
like honey, slow and golden…
into this human heart….
What was already there

It doesn’t plant a seed…
The seed was always there.
It remembers it.
It waters it
with wonder…

It anchors us.

“Tethers the Great Self to the Soul of the World.”

A whisper rises…

“what is within is also without.
what is above is also below.”

Heaven is not somewhere else.
It is not someday.
It is here.
Now.
Beating.
In this heart.
Breathing as I breathe.

Larson Langston
Art by mendezmendez
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