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RestSure. Shylene & Susan bring a fresh and personal perspective to death, dying and the dead. RestSure is an I saw this through family, friends, and colleges. Now.

Shylene Schlackl & Susan Blackwood have teamed up to build this comprehensive understanding of what we all need to know about the end of life here in British Columbia. Working together over the past couple of years they have become a great team, ready to support our community. Working as a team and separately in their own fields, Susan and Shylene bring a unique cross of wisdom and play to this f

ield of service. Over the past years, these two have developed various 'prescriptions" for rest and sureness at the end of life. The Eight Areas of Transition: a rest assurance plan
1) Living Life - what does life truly mean to you?
2) People - key people and the impact your death will have on them.
3) Belief - your thoughts on death, dying, and the dead
4) Grief - a normal part of living and empowers you when honoured
5) Transition - document, clarify and discuss your Exit strategy
6) Last Honours - help. you organize and think about your funeral
7) Legacy/Ancestry- contemplation on what you are leaving behind
8) Material Life - your physical presence, possessions and such

it was only a few years ago i (Shylene) began to notice people are not coping well with deaths. Through my work in the community and my very large family, I knew I wanted to begin this conversation, begin learning about this area of life. I am slowing learning, exploring, and researching death, practices, and cultural traditions, rituals, and ceremonies. I am reading and creating documents to help support my circles of people. Planning to create the Rest-Assured package, to guide, support, and deepen our relationship to each other, our lives, and our deaths. I am looking forward to using this page to help me collect and share more about the materials and resources becoming widely available online. Together, we are co-creating awareness, acceptance, and a bit of magic around this once very dark and often neglected part of being human. blessed be!

09/03/2026
Polka dots queen https://parcinq.com/culture/remembering-yayoi-kusama-the-polka-dot-queens-life-in-pictures/
08/27/2026

Polka dots queen

https://parcinq.com/culture/remembering-yayoi-kusama-the-polka-dot-queens-life-in-pictures/

The art world just lost one of its brightest souls. 🕊️🎨

Yayoi Kusama, the legendary Japanese artist known around the world as the “Polka Dot Queen,” passed away at 97 after multiple organ failure 💔

Even in her final weeks, Kusama reportedly remained devoted to what had defined so much of her life: creating. She continued painting and writing until near the very end.

For more than six decades, Kusama transformed dots, pumpkins and infinite reflections into entire universes—and invited millions of us inside them. Her life may have ended, but in a way, Yayoi Kusama created exactly something that could go on forever ❤️

CL

08/27/2026

A beautiful tribute and way to honour as aunty and great human!
Shine on!

08/21/2026

Sun set slow
Hmm 🤔

caring for our dead.Caring for your dead. This is care you can do! Humans did all our own death care since the beginning...
07/30/2026

caring for our dead.
Caring for your dead.
This is care you can do!
Humans did all our own death care since the beginning of humanity. Only in recent times has this been given to ‘professionals”
if you are a human - you know how to do this - we are in the age of remembering this basic human experience - handling, witnessing, caring of our dead.

topics article on Care of the Body After Death.

07/25/2026

Keening, from the Irish "caoineadh," was a full-body wail let out over the dead. Women gathered around the coffin, pounded on it, chanted the person's name, and let sound carry what words couldn't. It could go on for days, and it was sometimes led by a professional keener.

This wasn't a performance. It was an ancient way to move through grief, built on the idea that pain had to be let loose through sound and motion instead of trapped in the body.

The Catholic Church started speaking against it as early as 1614. Priests called it pagan and uncivilized, a threat to the natural order. By 1748, keening in public could get you excommunicated.

By the mid-1900s the tradition was basically gone.

What went with it was a space where people were allowed to fall apart and weren't alone doing it. We mourn now in silence, in small sobs, on a schedule that fits around a Monday morning, and then we wonder why grief feels impossible to move through.

We didn't evolve past needing this. We just stopped doing it.

07/17/2026

These words remind us that aging, illness, death, change, are not interruptions to life. They are life.

The deeper task is not to avoid them, or to avoid talking about them, but to find ways to be with them as part of what it means to live, and to love the people in our lives.

Sacred Deathcare is committed to bringing more meaning, beauty, and healing to experiences of death and loss. When we weave nature-based rituals with an understanding of the afterlife, new possibilities for healing emerge.

If you’re called to bring this wisdom into the way you support your famliy, friends, clients, or patients, comment CERTIFICATION and I’ll send you more information about our upcoming Sacred Deathcare Guide Certification Program.

⭐️ Enrollment is now open ⭐️

Cohort 4, River Song, runs from September 2026 to March 2027 and we’d love to have you join us.

Early Bird registration ends July 19th. This includes a $500 USD discount off the regular tuition, and two additional video modules:
💜 Healthy Boundaries for Deathwalkers
💜 Validation for Your Mystical Experiences

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