06/19/2026
Perimenopause has become a self-improvement project.
And I am both participating in it and contributing to it.
The irony isn’t lost on me.
Women arrive in this transition already carrying decades of pressure to be thinner, better, healthier, more productive, more beautiful, and more disciplined.
Then menopause arrives and hands them another list.
Another protocol.
Another metric.
Another thing to optimize.
Sometimes I wonder whether what we’re really searching for is permission.
Permission to be enough before we improve anything at all.