05/10/2026
Today is Mother’s Day and this day has always felt complicated to me.
I want to honour the incredible moms who bring life, love, safety, and care into this world. At the same time, I know this day can hold grief, longing, pain, or emptiness for many people too.
♡ Some are missing their moms.
♡ Some never had the mother they needed.
♡ Some desperately wanted to become a mom.
♡ Some carry painful memories of motherhood or being mothered.
One of the things I’ve learned through psychology, and honestly through my own life, is that emotional wellness is not about forcing ourselves into either/or thinking. It’s about learning to hold complexity. Two things can be true at once.
↔ Joy and grief.
↔ Love and loss.
↔ Celebration and ache.
I used to struggle with needing things to fit into black-and-white categories. But psychological flexibility has taught me that healing often looks like making space for the full picture instead of choosing one side of it.
So today, whether Mother’s Day feels beautiful, painful, bittersweet, or all of the above, there is room for your experience too.