12/05/2026
Postnatal Depression
Recovering Pregnancy and childbirth have profound physical effects on the body, and you should not try to rush your recovery.
Coping with a new baby is an art.
I have treated hundreds of postnatal depression cases in my integrated medical centre in London, and many of them found the support and treatment very helpful.
Many mothers go through a period of despondency soon after their baby is born. This might be a lowering of the spirits that dissipates after a couple of weeks (the baby blues) or a truly depressive state that can be damaging.
There are several reasons for this:
After the surge of hormones during pregnancy, excitement about the new baby and general feeling of triumph, it is not surprising if there is a flat, letdown feeling after the euphoria wears off.
Lack of sleep and feeling cooped up indoors with the baby (especially in winter when the days are shorter and gloomy take their toll, perhaps exacerbated by heavy blood loss, low blood pressure or anaemia and other nutritional deficiencies (magnesium, zinc, calcium).
Other people can make things worse. During pregnancy, a woman gets used to being fêted and cosseted, but once the baby is born much affection and attention is transferred to the new arrival. The mother's needs can be overlooked. She may be disturbed by feelings of jealousy and guilt. Such feelings can precipitate a downward spiral of resentment and lack of self-worth. When a baby is born, everyone rushes to see and celebrate the baby, but we should not forget the mother. She has made the greatest sacrifice, gone through pain and hardship, and deserves care, respect, and support. Looking after the mother is just as important as looking after the baby.
If you can't sleep well, feel low, don't want to meet people, feel like crying, want to give up everything or doubt yourself, you need help. Don't tell yourself that it's just a passing phase that every mother goes through, or that you'll be making a fuss over nothing. It might pass on its own after a month or two, but it might linger on.
Deal with it sooner rather than later. Don't try to cope on your own and don't deny that something has to be done. Your relationship with your family and the bonding With your baby may be badly affected at this crucial point. Swallow any feelings of inadequac, or embarrassment, and talk to someone. This might be your partner, your parents, sister,a close friend or a medical professional. Ask them to guide you through this . factors.woman do not prepare themselves for labourespecially if they work until the last minute. Many working Woman do not have much time for exercise, diet and relaxation in the last trimester. Most tend to take the
maternity leave after the baby is born.
Woman who do physical work in moderation easier births.
A few practical ideas:
Nutrition boosts mental strength as well as physical energy. Make sure your diet is highly nutritious and you are not lacking any nutrients. Common ones are protein and iron: eating spinach, liver, red meat, cherries and other good sources of iron will help correct any low blood pressure or anaemia. Drink a glass of fresh carrot, apple, ginger, celery and fresh mint juice. It will provide you with vitamins, minerals and enzymes that your body needs. Avoid the big baddies (coffee, alcohol, excess yeast and acidity)
Massage and exercise are mood enhancers. Yoga can be done at home easily; it helps you to breathe
and calms your mind and body. Dancing or exercise videos are also very helpful.
This is a time to call on close family and friends.
They could help you with child care, or just be with you and listen to you. Feeling you are not on your own is helpful.
Recovering Pregnancy and childbirth have profound physical effects on the body, and you should not try to rush your recovery.
Coping with a new baby is an art. I have just given you some essential information based on what I have learnt and observed over 35 years. Traditional knowledge is very important. New diseases develop and medical breakthroughs are made, but women were always pregnant and babies were always born. They knew how to deal with the situation then and their knowledge and experience is invaluable. After the birth
The joy of seeing and holding your new baby overrules everything, but labour is an exhausting business. You should be encouraged to sleep. Arrange to have the following ready, to help your rest and recuperation in the hours following the birth:
• grape or apple juice, freshly squeezed if possible.
Other cold drinks are useful to help calm down a tired body
• drink a ginger and fennel infusion 3-4 times a day; boil 1 tsp of fennel seeds with 1 tsp grated ginger for 10 minutes, then leave to cool
• massage for the soles of the feet with a soothing cream or oil
•home-made chicken soup, for replenishing but easily digested sustenance.
Supplements:
These will all help restore energy and give you a sense of well-being.
• shatavari
• kolonji or black cumin seed oil (Nigella sativa)
• multivitamins and minerals
• shilajit (ayurvedic supplements).
A new mother
Pregnancy is not an end in itself, it is just the beginning.
In the next chapter look at important aspects of a new mother's health, coping with feeding a newborn baby, recovering from the strains of pregnancy and labour, and finding her feet in a changed life.
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