14/06/2026
There is something powerful about women gathering together. ❤️
During perimenopause and menopause, hormonal changes can affect our mood, stress, sleep, and overall well-being. One hormone can help: oxytocin—often called the “bonding” or “love” hormone.
Research shows that social connection, physical touch, shared experiences, and even exercising together can increase oxytocin, helping reduce stress and strengthen feelings of trust, belonging, and well-being.
This week in Miami reminded me of that truth.
I came to Miami for my book signing at Barnes & Noble and to share my message on podcasts like Surviving Roots and Cake for Dinner. But what impacted me most wasn’t the publicity—it was the people.
My friends showed up.
They supported me.
They made introductions.
They shared my message.
They reminded me that I wasn’t doing this alone.
No one writes a book alone. And no one launches a book alone.
The biggest return on investment I’ve ever received wasn’t financial—it was relational. The friendships I’ve invested in for years showed up for me in a big way this week.
Being surrounded by friends filled my cup, lifted my spirit, and reminded me how deeply loved and supported I am.
It helped me feel Loved AF.
If there’s one lesson I’ve learned this week, it’s this:
Connection is medicine.
That’s why my favorite chapter in Lonely AF is “Building Your People Puzzle.” Because the quality of our lives is shaped by the quality of our relationships.
If you’re craving deeper connection, Lonely AF will help take you from Lonely AF to Loved AF—one relationship at a time.
✨ Grab your copy and start building your people puzzle.