24/08/2026
I think one of the most useful things you can learn about yourself is what you do when you feel out of control.
Because it’s usually not random.
You might clean.
You might organise.
You might micromanage.
You might start fixing things that weren’t actually a problem five minutes ago.
And because those behaviours can look so normal from the outside, we don’t always stop to ask what’s underneath them.
That’s where it gets interesting.
Not in judging the behaviour. Not in trying to force yourself to stop doing it.
In understanding why you need to do it in the first place.
That’s the work I do with my clients.
We look at the patterns, what’s driving them, and what’s happening underneath the behaviour so you’re not just spending your life trying to manage everything around you.
If you want to do this work with me, comment “WORK” and I’ll send you the details.