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Metamorphosis I don't know if it's a 'me' thing or a Sagittarius trait but I really don't judge people or for the most p...
25/05/2026

Metamorphosis

I don't know if it's a 'me' thing or a Sagittarius trait but I really don't judge people or for the most part, I dislike being utterly presumptuous about people, since we don't know the choices they had to make them do undesirable things (but you that's been stealing my content, I'm judging you like mad🤌🏿) .

Anyways the reason why I give people this grace is because many people are still in the caterpillar and or pupa(chrysalis) phase of their lives or still in the process of becoming the butterfly.

I think it starts off as egg, lava (caterpillar) ,pupa or chrysalis then butterfly.

You know, the caterpillar doesn't look as beautiful as the butterfly. As a matter of fact, it looks ugly as hell, dangerous and even poses as a threat to anything it deems dangerous to its metamorphosis or transformation.

Sound familiar? When we look at the life we don't want, it's because it looks ugly as hell too, sometimes the environment we're in poses a threat to our growth and security and we have to do certain things to forge ahead and protect ourselves on our transformative journeys!

Sometimes, the caterpillar camouflages like a chameleon to blend in with its environment so as to survive, just like we do; we meet people, we like them and try to blend in with them just to survive.
Other times, they (caterpillars )send out bright lights to signal to predators that they're toxic, like we do in the face of danger; other times, they use spikes or hairs to keep danger away.
Sometimes we use our bodies to serve and save us; same difference.
We should learn to equip ourselves to amp our protection because predators do not care ,they want what they want and if you don't protect yourself, they'll destroy you , even if it's out of curiosity!

The best part about it is how the caterpillar goes into "hermit mode" chrysalis to prepare for it's final stage and no one sees them till they're ready to fly as a butterfly 🦋.

This is how healing looks to spiritual folk like me!!!
You have to not care to be seen during certain phases, especially when you're healing or even after.

One last thing is that the chrysalis phase is when the butterfly has taken form and developed its wings and it must learn to fly but the cocoon that served as protection during its other stages now stands as a hindrance and nothing can break it except the butterfly.
The butterfly has to hit and hit and hit and that strengthens its wings and breaks this cocoon eventually.
We must be consistent with new habits, it gets tiring, people don't see how much work you put in emotionally and it sometimes feels like you should give up but the trauma stops hurting afterwards, acceptance kicks in and you free yourself from the shackles that held you down mentally. You see the processes the butterfly goes through, it lets nothing stop it from its destination, not its mother, father,spouse or siblings, it keeps going.

So it flaps consistently till it breaks free and flies, if anything or force tries to help it, it will never learn how to fly and will die hours later.

It's amazing how the universe has put lessons for us in nature everywhere, yet some people don't think they have it in them to become who they desire to be or who they envy.

It's simple,if you want to write like me, read, write,read, practice. If you want to be intune with your spiritual gifts, put in the work, heal. Everything is learned through consistency but you'll never become me by consistently stealing my material , you'll only become a consistent thief.
Everyday I put in this small gem to encourage people who do this because they're hidden in plain sight! Even caterpillars know that there's beauty in being original, they don't envy,they don't copy, they focus on themselves.

Healing is not and will never be collective but personal work, that's why even if you and your husband seek couple's counselling and therapy and both don't put in the work to fix the broken parts of the ship, the relationship will fail . Everyone needs to work on themselves!
Protect yourselves too as much as you can but also make sure you put in the effort for the necessary changes to occur.

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What is a mother wound? A mother wound is an emotional or psychological pain that develops from difficult, unhealthy, ne...
20/05/2026

What is a mother wound?

A mother wound is an emotional or psychological pain that develops from difficult, unhealthy, neglectful, critical, controlling, absent, or inconsistent experiences with one’s mother or primary maternal figure.
This means how you turn out as an adult is directly proportional to the amount of healing the mother-wound!

When we were young, I used to have this thought that most young girls who give birth early will have a daughter , especially when their moms had them young too.
I always felt like girls must have a girl child as some form of punishment for being disobedient! I was unto something but I was unto something wrong!!! Follow me.

The only reason why girls come or why there are more elder daughters than sons is because of the theory of healing a bloodline; a man can't heal a bloodline without the help of the feminine, but a woman can do that without a masculine. I want to break this as simply as possible so we all understand how powerful the woman or feminine is!

The girl child comes so they can put in the work to heal a particular bloodline and if the eldest doesn't carry that mantle, another one is born and the cycle continues till the cycle breaker comes and does the work that the other generations before her did not! This work of breaking cycles includes healing, unlearning, relearning new things and applying the new things to bring the desired change or changes!

The boy child however, comes to a woman who should be willing to put in the work on herself so that she can inculcate the lessons shes has learnt unto that boy so that he becomes useful to society!!! Do you see the difference???

It's women who put in 💯% work on themselves who reap the fruits of their labor. It means that it's very easy to raise boys but women have to be of sound mind first!

So there's absolutely no reason for you to have or want another child after having a girl child if you have unresolved trauma because not only are you risking lives, you're adding her future responsibilities to heal her mother-wounds plus other generational trauma!

You see, boys who turned out respectful and useful to society have a solid and emotionally healthy mother or mother-figure behind them while the same cannot be said for women!!!
Mother wounds affect how we approach all our relationships, but especially with other women. It also affects our money, our wombs, our mental health and therefore our immune systems.

So no matter how many children you're willing to have , ensure you're emotionally healthy first, financially and physically okay to take care of children before deciding to have more than one because if you're not , then you're the problem in society , not the children, YOU!!!

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I'm so happy we're in the age of information and once again, the universe has come to buttress my POV about these so-cal...
18/05/2026

I'm so happy we're in the age of information and once again, the universe has come to buttress my POV about these so-called high value men.

Meet Ashley St Clair; her baby daddy is Elon Musk. Presently , she's 27 and a mother of two boys. She is an ex-maga supporter. For those who don't know, Maga was Trump's slogan during his campaign which stands for (make America great again). Because of her stance in politics and her support of Trump, she gained recognition from fellow maga lovers (right wing) because she was a "sh*t-poster" on Twitter/X. That was how she attracted the likes of Elon who not only followed her but constantly engaged with her tweets until he arranged for an interview with her company.
She met with Elon Musk physically when she was 24 and according to her narrative, they had a ge***al meet and greet very early and he started talking about having his next baby with her. Mind you, Elon was already a 50 year old man with babies from multiple other women but the first thing he sought with her was to want to fertilize her eggs. Infact he asked her to pick a baby-name after their first segzual encounter.

Let me backtrack a little.. Elon Musk is the richest man in the world, that automatically makes him "high value" right?
Let me get a dictionary definition of high value ...in simple terms, high value means something is highly worthwhile , of great value and rare! In some cases it means expensive .

So, a “high value man” is a popular social and relationship term used to describe a man who is seen as bringing strong qualities to his life, relationships, and community. Different people define it differently, but it usually refers to a combination of:
Confidence without arrogance
Emotional maturity
Financial responsibility or stability
Discipline and ambition
Integrity and reliability
Good communication skills
Respect for himself and others
Ability to lead, protect, support, or provide in some way
Purpose and self-awareness

Why people consider character of high value is because it cannot be bought and is intangible. Money and material wealth can be lost but character stays in the presence of money or not! And most of the qualities labelled above are not qualities that he emits, he doesn't even fake having intergrity.

Anyways, I digress...
Ashley is one lady with proximity to power, at 24, she was seduced by the richest man in the world and he conned her into falling in love with him like all dusties do and she naively believed that because she asked all the right questions to which he responded with lies, meant that he had good intentions towards her.

Only her association with him made her a target, she was hated and the media painted her as someone who baby trapped him for money...you see, all of these boil down to one thing, an unregulated nervous system!

When she realized that he had lied about his living situation with another mother of his children, his interest in some online influencers and his life, she decided to distance herself from him and things ended but it's been nasty ever since!!!

Today she's being dragged to many courts after she first sued Elon and it's alleged that her house is being watched, she's being followed and her family and friends are threatened regularly. All for what? Proximity to power and because she's seen their true nature and is even exposing the atrocious acts he commits against people whom he feels threatened by.
In the midst of all these, an ex close friend of hers is also milking the situation to her advantage by using what she knew about the relationship and twisting it to make Ashley look guilty and bad... What have I been saying about narcissistic women?

None of us envisage such things when we get entangled with such people because they always have sob stories about their lives which they use to woo us into feeling sorry for them. And because someone like Elon Musk lies in bed to tell you about how he suffered as a child, you'd ignore who the suffering turned him to and believe that for such a powerful man to be vulnerable with you, it means he trusts and loves you 😂😂😂.

I am glad she's recovering from her "pickmeism" as she rightly pointed out and as a Gen Z, she's refused to back down, good for her!!!

But what have I been saying? Healing your nervous system will save you from a lot because you will be able to think clearly when you encounter such situations.
You will be able to negotiate your worth and not let your brain create fake scenarios about a Cinderella life.
You'll also be able to distinguish between personal interest and societal validation because it's very flattering for such a public figure to declare interest in you and Elon did so openly with her.
You'll also be able to determine whether you are really liked for your worth or not!

I've left out a lot but I included her handle so you guys can go watch for yourselves.
In all you do, practice discernment when reading content that promotes the chase, especially chasing people that will instead disrupt your peace,use your womb and threaten your life.
Inshort una go heal

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'Nuff said ‼️
17/05/2026

'Nuff said ‼️

I just remembered a conversation with my cousin about mental health where she kept hammering that depression is of the d...
16/05/2026

I just remembered a conversation with my cousin about mental health where she kept hammering that depression is of the devil, it's not real and that anyone who claims to be depressed should seek God! This was a very dangerous narrative. By that time , I had just finished some courses in psychiatry.
So I tried in my own way to educate her about said topic and told her that the narrative she's posting about sounds like fanaticism.
I explained that the brain is also a part of the body like our stomachs and feet, and when our stomachs feel uneasy, we take medication for it or treat our feet with medication but when our brains get sick in Africa, we claim it's from the devil and ask depressed people to seek God...
My simple question was, "is the brain not a part of the body?" She said it was, so I proceeded to ask why she thought it didn't need treatment when unwell like other body parts and she couldn't give me an answer. This post is not about depression though.

It's the same thing I've been hammering about striving for self-sufficiency with or without the help of a man and some idiots with a keypad will hide and try to make it seem like those of us who are teaching these things are trying to get women to level down.
Beware of counsel that sounds good but secretly targets your insecurities. Every one of us has the capacity to have everything good in life, we just have to be in the right frame of mind to believe and act on it.

Discernment is the key to your growth , your healing, your elevation and even your protection. Use your discernment to understand what someone is not saying by what they're actually saying...

Whether we like it or not, we are here to fulfill our souls' purposes... There's no amount of money or levelling up that can make you fulfill your soul's purpose when you decide to submit yourself to certain kind of abusive men and situations for money and embarrassment!
It's the same like disregarding the brain and claiming that depression is not a sickness but something the devil brought. No matter how much a man gives you after you've submitted your body for him to use as he pleases, your soul will never be satisfied because that's not what it came here to do. Those things affect our mental health and cause trauma which in turn fries our nervous systems, there's no way you'll find soulful fulfilment there. In case you don't know, it's alleged that heaven is a regulated nervous system because that's the point of Godhood!

However, I've always pointed out that money is good and if we can't get it through being partnered up, we can always seek avenues to make it without hurting ourselves. Which means that seek relationships that are fulfilling your NEEDS,not just material needs!

I'll leave you with this food for thought...

If money was the ultimate, why do rich people, wicked people etc all try to seek solace for their souls on their deathbed? Why don't they seek solace in "high value men and women"? Why do they "give their lives to Christ?" Or why do they seek God? Why don't they ask the high value society to come closer? Why don't they get buried with all the accumulated wealth and titles?

Finally back to my original point... Your soul came here to evolve but in order to evolve, you will have to trascend certain things and having money will be one of them but there should be no one of more high value in your life than you, you should know this and stop worshipping people. The only people who are angry I refuse to follow this culture are only triggered by the fact that their imaginary high value men mean nothing to me and I'm exposing how they're being treated by them. Goan face your imaginary high value partner and your reality alone!

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High value man my ssa!!!I've mentioned severally about an ex of mine who was son to one of the richest men in my country...
12/05/2026

High value man my ssa!!!

I've mentioned severally about an ex of mine who was son to one of the richest men in my country. Some old friends know him and by the standards of our "social media relationship gurus", he will be considered a high value man but I and other self-respecting women who personally dealt with him know that he deserves to live in the trenches and never have access to any woman ever!

An older friend of mine had adviced me on how to approach relationships with such men, she said they're just good for lunch dates to beautiful restaurants and out of town enjoyments but not relationship- worthy but I was naive and didn't listen, so I put my heart into it and as I ignored the signs, I later saw wonders!

At face value, he has the looks, the education, the money, connection and power and he was aware his father's name could open doors and he used it to the fullest. He was not a young man! Because of my father wounds, I used to find older men attractive and more mature but it was just trauma!

All these people we think we love to be associated with, in order to be considered beautiful enough or high end enough are very useless people and I look back now and consider it a frivolous endeavor. I hated the man! Our values didn't align, even his skin color wasn't my favorite , people who love big d$&s would love him but that was actually my biggest pet peeve about him. I hated him because not only was he a terrible boyfriend, he was a terrible boss and human and I am glad I got to witness it for myself to be able to tell that such people are really not good for anything. One could say that I attracted him because of my nervous system; yes....but when I used the meter to compare how I'd love to be treated vs how he treated me, I bounced!

Came to find out that this man hacked my WhatsApp and had access to my messages and calls for a long time. I actually had to call him out on it but I doubt he stopped till I changed my numbers. I did an Irish goodbye with him and he only found out I'd left him when he kept trying to arrange for outings and I would decline. Remember how I mentioned that you don't leave such people anyhow because they can harm you? I had to leave town completely! When he realized I was gone gone, he started asking me back for the items and gifts he'd offered me (high value my fat a&$).

Not discouraging anyone from seeking a wealthy partner but ensure your nervous system is in check and you can handle the woes that come with dealing with such people. You will be targeted and hated by other women, you will be belittled by him and his kind no matter how polished and educated you are, you will feel out of place and he will bread crumb you once in a while when he knows he's slipped one too many times.

No woman deserves to be treated like they're less than and you should ignore the pressure-culture that wants you to prove that you're living the big girl life. You can work hard for yourself and give yourself everything and more . Don't let people think that not being taken care of or being gifted by a man makes you any less than!

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Let's talk about destiny swapping since it's making its round as the trending term right now. The term means what it say...
06/05/2026

Let's talk about destiny swapping since it's making its round as the trending term right now.

The term means what it says, "swapping destinies"! I have spoken and written a few times that I don't believe in it, however, it doesn't mean that the concept isn't real. My own beliefs stem from my personal experiences and I mean it when I say I don't believe in destiny swapping (of my life or anyone else's without permission).

This brings a poignant point about how the Bible is misleading because we see the story of Jacob and Esau and how their destinies were "swapped" albeit with some help and cunning! This also means that because the other gave permission through food, he agreed for his blessings to be given to another, therefore it is allowed! You see... permission!

Now I know we'll be wondering in today's day and age how we can agree to do that but it's very easy and common than we think! The only thing an attempted destiny swapper needs is the energy of the other and in some cases, your attention is enough!

All narcissists are destiny swappers, all destiny swappers are jealous people and all of them lack personal agency, sovereignty and authenticity! And you don't need to be rich, beautiful or even popular or too smart for people to feel threatened to the point of attempting to take over your life. Sometimes, just contentment and being self-sufficient is enough to drive people to this point. Most people who try destiny swapping also have no self-confidence and self-esteem,hence they desire that of their victim or victims.
So in summary, all destiny swappers have identity issues and do not love themselves.

Destiny swapping is not a phenomena that only happens in friendships; sometimes, your own mother couple be your biggest opp and try to replace you unfortunately! In other cases, it could be a sibling or blood relative.

Destiny swapping is the phenomena whereby someone engages in egregious acts to ensure they take over the life of their target or targets. It could be by copying them, blocking them from opportunities, smear campaigns, casting spells, reading their charts without their permission to know their future, lying against them and many more atrocious and lewd acts.

People who have suffered from attempted destiny swaps usually have a great calling and once they set out on the right path, these energies show up to distract and cause endings so that they shouldn't fulfill their life's purposes and raise the frequency of the universe.

This is why it's important to have personal agency and conviction.
When I say 'great calling", it could simply sometimes mean that their mission is to free their bloodline from ancestral bo***ge or become the healer they're destined to become to free others!

This is the one reason why I consider people as energies because that's what we really are. Some energies are here to free others while some are here to entrap; You should be able to distinguish between the two!

Why I say it's really not something I believe in, it's because we all have charted paths ahead for us and moving on the wrong path (swapped path) will take you to where you'll perish while following your destined path will align you with your soul's desires. Get an astrologist to read your chart!!!

While we all strive to become better, to make a name for ourselves and attract better, let's be careful we're not trying to copy and replace those we feel inspired or threatened by, to the extent that we don't recognize that we're actively trying to destiny swap! I know there are people who do this to gain material wealth like the fool who used my images on an adult site and the other idiot who waits for me to post then copies and posts as if it's hers. I decided to do nothing because I didn't consent to any of those and they instead activated my ancestral rage.

If you've also experienced these attempts on and in your life, ensure you protect your energy from anything that drains and unsettles you!

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More on narcissism 🙂‍↕️One thing I've learnt that held me back in life was my REACTION to events and circumstances that...
03/05/2026

More on narcissism 🙂‍↕️

One thing I've learnt that held me back in life was my REACTION to events and circumstances that used to trigger me.
I have always been someone who believes in justice and this naive mindset made me very easy to read; hence easy to trigger.

This was so because the people who perpetuated this abuse towards me, e.g my mom,some family members, exes etc all studied my patterns and knew exactly where to strike to get their desired results and they always won because unlike them, I didn't study my own patterns!
As a matter of fact, I believed that if I called you out on something once or twice, you didn't have to repeat the same mistake, so I gave many people the chance to hurt me over and over because of what we consider "the benefit of the doubt".

You see, narcissistic people know this too well! They will deliberately hurt you the first time and when you react or call their bu****it, they might immediately apologize to put you off track because you'd think they're accountable... unfortunately, that might be the first and last apology you might get because they've already set the stage for the kill and you'd think you have a responsible person around you who will still be held accountable a second time! Even if it's not the last, they'll rarely do so and will breadcrumb you with good treatment once in a while.
That's when the gaslighting and crazy- making starts.
Crazy making is the art of making the victim seem crazy by denying their reality, gaslighting them and making them seem like what they remember about an incident is not true. You know how you can have a conversation with someone and you bring up a lie you caught from the previous day and the person denies even having that conversation with you. You can be pointing out a wrong and the person tells you they don't understand what you're talking about. You'll sometimes be wondering if you imagined the conversation 😂😂😂.

Anyways, what I've learned is that you can only confront healthy people because they're the ones who can take accountability and actually change. Do not confront your cheating partner,your toxic friends, relatives or bosses, they know what they're doing. Don't waste your time doing it, once you clock something toxic, stay calm and non-confrontational because that's what they expect from you and because they know how to push your buttons, you will end up being triggered and in worst case scenarios, you might be harmed!

When you stay calm, you've disarmed them by at least 80% and they'll expose themselves because they will definitely be pushed to try more ways to get you to react!
It's not like I didn't have people advising me to learn to control myself like this but I hadn't grown enough to see the full picture of how this worked till I started practicing it and saw great results! I'm glad I finally came to this place and it's hard work but the payoff is greater!

Like I was coaching someone the other day, I told her to consider the narcissist who is coming against you as a child throwing a tantrum because that's what they really are! They're children in adult-bodies and that's why I start therapy with healing the inner child first. Every human encounter you have is an encounter between your inner child and the inner child of the other person. So everything that's unresolved about them will show up and that's really who you're dealing with, which is why I really don't react very much these days because when I take a step back and remember it's their inner child acting out, I even feel ashamed to think I used to let five year olds in adult bodies to push my buttons.
Stay non-reactive!!!

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Whilst the world is happy Tonto is finally having her lick back, I want to use the other lady as a prime example of how ...
30/04/2026

Whilst the world is happy Tonto is finally having her lick back, I want to use the other lady as a prime example of how female narcissists work . I'm not even interested in gloating because the lady is being served karma on a silver platter. Only sympathy I have is because she's a woman,other than that, don't care.

She seems like the kind of woman who was Tonto's fan, became obsessed with her and because they were both in the limelight, started eventually seeing Tonto as a threat. She saw Tonto and probably listened to people who told her she was prettier than Tonto and decided to enter a one-sided competition with her and thought she won when her marriage scattered.
The way such people's minds work is that they'll think about what you have in common; in their case, both were beautiful light-skinned actresses and she felt that if any man can admire and marry Tonto, he can want her too!!!

Mind you, she played a pivotal role in the abuse perpetuated against Tonto and even after Tonto left the marriage, she was still acting behind the scenes to smear her name and ensure the hate train against her continue . She must have recruited so many flying monkeys who supported her because Tonto is the kind of woman who exuded a free spirit, she lived her life wild and free and people who are not at home with themselves do not like women like Tonto and will do any and every thing to make sure they "swap destinies" with you. Whilst I don't recognize the version of Tonto I'm seeing now, I am at least happy she's been vindicated. She's allowed to become a different version of who she previously was without us trying to fit her in a box.

Is Tonto perfect, hell no but was she living life on her own terms, hell yeah and it bothered this lady. It always starts as admiration,then copying and competition! I guess this is not her first rodeo with Tonto but this is the one that made it to the public because of how scandalous the whole thing was!

Unfortunately for people who have not been living their own lives,who have attempted to eliminate people they're jealous of, this is the period the planets are exposing and dishing out karma!

Whilst she ignored every good counsel who tried to show her the truth, she continuously defended a man who has come out today to say he didn't need her defense and also that if she didn't occupy that space, someone else could have! Did I not make a post about a man being a meter or measuring rod for how we treat ourselves?

" But Ella, the man is a narcissist, he lied to her"... How? This lady was sleeping with him when he was married still and because we have normalized dating married men doesn't mean it's right! She was an active participant in the abuse of another woman and isolated herself from the world because she wanted so desperately to prove that she was better than Tonto. When you come to the realization that most narcissistic people want to prove that you're bad and they're better than you , you'll understand why I tell us everyday to ditch shame and accept that we're bad people!
Once you bask in that truth, the only other way they can try to disrupt your peace will be to try you spiritually like my landlady🤣🤣🤣🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾

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When they wanted to steal our lands, our artifacts and culture, they presented religion. We worshipped their gods while ...
24/04/2026

When they wanted to steal our lands, our artifacts and culture, they presented religion. We worshipped their gods while they practiced our spirituality. That's how narcissism was born. Convince people that what you have is better than theirs and take over their identity while gaslighting and breadcrumbing them with little truth nuggets so that they never gain true wisdom that will "set them free".

Even after they left, they convinced us to continue their stupid legacy and today, our parents practice it and call it religion, while stealing from us the children and lying through their teeth. I don't know what is wrong with especially African parents and entitlement. The very ones who didn't provide and weren't that present are usually the ones who expect too much from their over-giving, people pleasing adult children.

Nothing irritates me more than when someone uses religion, the Bible or church to gaslight people but what's even more irritating are the ones who are so brainwashed that they play defense coach to the very system that is oppressing them. Today, I listened to a father try to clip at his daughter's wings in the name of prayer in which he was saying that may God help her not to be too sure of herself. Even if I was a loving and forgiving child, that's the kind of statement that would reset my brain and I'd cut you off immediately.
There was a lot but just that statement is what I want to expand on.

I talk about trusting the universe a lot and some religious fanatics may say that it's the same but it's not.
First off, women have an inner compass that always speaks to them and if they listen to it, they'll make decisions that will benefit them 💯 ... it's called your intuition. Obviously any one who's gained full autonomy and personal agency has gone through phases of growth that required them to trust that intuition and when you trust it, you become "sure of yourself".
So when a man who has ulterior motives prays that kind of prayer towards you, just know that he's trying to keep you caged and under his control. While context matters, we need to be discerning to understand what is not being said. Because we've been so conditioned to believe that we have to "honor our father and mother", we keep people around who're not good for our mental, spiritual and therefore financial health and growth!
When you're facing chaotic situations like what this client is currently going through, her emotions are not regulated and every part of her life will be affected, her performance at work, her personal relationships , physical and financial health.

Anyways, I digress. I didn't even plan to make a post today but after listening to what I listened to, I just had to!!!

Dear woman, this isn't even about me being a feminist or misandrist. I'm a humanist first but I'll love to tell you that unless a man is emotionally healthy, you should not listen to him. I'm talking about a man as a father in this case... Your emotionally unhealthy father is the blueprint for the kind of man you'll end up with if you don't evolve.
Your father should not be the kind to clip your wings, healthy parents set the stage for their children to thrive and if he's trying to use religion to control the child, he may have used it previously with his wife, sisters, female colleagues and his other girl children and it worked. It's a successful cycle and M/O for him but it's a cycle that needs to stop once it becomes clear. As hard as it is to come to the realization that some of our parents are not good for our growth, it's still a truth that must be accepted albeit the hurt. The truth remains the truth, no matter who accepts it or not!

There's so much I can talk about men using the Bible and fake prophecies to stifle women's growth but this is 2026, you should be privy to knowledge that profits you and apply accordingly.

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