08/03/2023
Proverbs 31:10-31
Indeed we need to be virtuous according to God's ways.
Majority of women allow money to come between them and their spouses. Some won't just humble themselves and allow the men act as men. Some women won't just save their homes with lots of comparison and unnecessary pressures and wants.
Some women are so materialistic that without earthly things, their husbands become nothing in their eyes. Other women are so unappreciative that no matter how hard their husbands try, it is never enough for them. Little efforts they cannot appreciate and cheer. They keep pushing their husbands until something terrible happens. Some learn their lessons at the end, others still don't.
The word of God is here at our disposal today, telling us how God expects a woman after his heart to behave.
As a woman what is that earthly pleasure that can divide your home? That home that took you years to build? The Bible tells us that it is not worth it.
If you are women who will not support your husband financially, emotionally, psychologically and prayerfully, then you should start today. Now we know that women are not only supposed to be wives but to work hard just like their men, to fill the shortage gap incase unnecessary lack hits the home. Let's stop complaining of how our husbands can't provide, can't this, can't that. Now the Bible has made us to understand that we also as wives need to work hard and support these men. Let's get to work sisters. It is time to wake up and let go of vanity. Let's stop chasing the air. Say no to comparison. Train your mind to be self sufficient and grateful. Train yourself to be appreciative. Recognize even the little efforts and praise so that these men can have the courage and the push to get even better because they have you in their lives. Let the lives of our husbands get better simply because they got married to us.
Let us stand up for what is necessary and valued in the sight of God.
Happy women's day to all these amazing sisters. Kindly wish all your husbands a happy women's day too because on women's day, women don't move alone but alongside their men.