郑淑丽正向教养Shuli Zheng

郑淑丽正向教养Shuli Zheng Chinese Translator of Play Therapy: Basic and Advanced
One of the five senior instructors of Positive Discipline in Chinese in the world.

大家好,我是郑淑丽,
全球五位中文正面管教高级导师之一
《正面管教教师指南A-Z》一书的中文译者
《正面管教:教师指南A-Z》中文译者
《称职父母:如何为孩子创建健康的原生家庭》中文译者
《游戏治疗:基础与进阶》中文译者
阿德勒游戏力养育课程联合创始人
国际认证鼓励/婚姻鼓励咨询导师
阿德勒国际夏季学院首位中国华人教员
ICASSI北美阿德勒大学心理学硕士
两个孩子的妈妈 《正面管教:教师指南A-Z》中文译者
《称职父母:如何为孩子创建健康的原生家庭》中文译者
《游戏治疗:基础与进阶》中文译者
全球五位中文正面管教高级导师之一
阿德勒游戏力养育课程联合创始人
国际认证正面管教家长/学校/早期教育/婚姻长乐/职场赋能导师(全证导师)
国际认证鼓励/婚姻鼓励咨询导师
阿德勒国际夏季学院首位中国华人教员ICASSI
北美阿德勒心理学会会员NASAP
北美阿德勒大学心理学硕士
国家注册二级心理咨询


学校/社区家庭教育名师工作室特聘顾问
两个孩子的妈妈
Chinese Translator of Positive Discipline: Teacher's Guide A-Z
Chinese translator of “Competent Parents: How to Create a Healthy Family of Origin for Your Child”. Co-founder of Adler's Playful Parenting Program
Internationally Certified Positive Discipline Parent/School/Early Learning/Marriage and Career Empowerment Instructor (Full Certification Instructor)
Internationally Certified Encouragement/Marriage Encouragement Counseling Instructor
First Chinese-Chinese Faculty Member of Adler International Summer Institute ICASSI
Member of North American Society of Adlerian Psychology NASAP
Master of Arts in Psychology, North American Adler University
National Registered Level II Counselor
Special Consultant for School/Community Family Education Master Teacher Workshop
Mother of two children

成长最好的模样,是孩子与父母的双向奔赴、彼此治愈✨8月14日-15日,我圆满带领28位少年,完成了线下《梦想领航·情绪闯关少年营》的成长之旅。两天沉浸式情绪成长课堂,每一刻都满是温暖与蜕变。孩子们沉浸式闯关情绪怪兽关卡、参与空椅子心理剧体验...
26/08/2026

成长最好的模样,是孩子与父母的双向奔赴、彼此治愈✨
8月14日-15日,我圆满带领28位少年,完成了线下《梦想领航·情绪闯关少年营》的成长之旅。两天沉浸式情绪成长课堂,每一刻都满是温暖与蜕变。
孩子们沉浸式闯关情绪怪兽关卡、参与空椅子心理剧体验、亲手绘制专属梦想蓝图。在这场特别的训练营里,他们不止学会了专业的情绪调节方法,更解锁了珍贵的成长认知:情绪从无好坏,所有情绪都值得被看见、被接纳。
更动人的是,孩子们终于读懂了父母的情绪背后,藏着不擅言说的担心与深爱。从前面对父母的情绪沟通,他们只会委屈沉默、抵触对抗;而今,他们学会稳住自我情绪,勇敢、平和地表达内心感受与真实需求。
结营现场,当孩子们站上舞台,真诚诉说心底的话,台下的家长们纷纷红了眼眶。很多家长坦言,这是第一次真正静下心听见孩子的心声,也深刻觉察到自己日常亲子沟通的短板与不足。
这一刻,成长不再是孩子的单方面修行,而是亲子双向的共生成长。家长愿意放下固有姿态,学会倾听、学会包容,选择和孩子一起调整、一起蜕变。
真正优质的少年成长课程,从来不止改变孩子。
它让孩子内心有底气、眼中有光、懂得理解与共情;
也让家长放慢脚步、复盘自我、学会温柔沟通。
结营后,孩子们纷纷追问下一期开营时间,这份纯粹的喜爱、家长的认可与感动,就是这场课程最圆满的答案❤️
#梦想领航情绪闯关少年营 #青少年情绪管理 #亲子双向成长 #少年成长营 #亲子沟通 #心理健康教育 #郑淑丽
The most beautiful way to grow up is a mutual journey of healing and progress between children and parents✨
On August 14-15, I,successfully led 28 teenagers to complete the offline growth camp — Dream Navigation · Emotion Challenge Teen Camp. Every moment of this two-day immersive emotional growth journey was filled with warmth and transformation.
The kids challenged emotional barrier games, experienced empty-chair psychodrama, and painted their exclusive dream blueprints. In this special camp, they not only mastered professional emotion regulation skills, but also gained precious growth cognition: There is no good or bad emotion. All emotions deserve to be seen and accepted.
Most touching of all, the children finally understood that behind their parents’ emotions lie hidden care and love that are rarely put into words. In the past, they would only feel wronged, stay silent or resist when facing their parents’ emotional communication. Now, they learn to stabilize their moods and express their inner feelings and real needs bravely and peacefully.
At the closing ceremony, when the children stood on the stage and spoke their true hearts, many parents in the audience were moved to tears. Most parents shared that this was the first time they truly listened to their children’s inner thoughts, and deeply reflected on their daily parent-child communication patterns.
At this moment, growth is no longer a one-sided practice for children, but a two-way symbiotic growth for the whole family. Parents are willing to let go of their prejudices, learn to listen and tolerate, and choose to adjust and grow together with their kids.
A high-quality youth growth course never only changes children.
It empowers children with inner confidence, positivity, empathy and understanding;
It also encourages parents to slow down, reflect on themselves, and communicate with tenderness.
After the camp ended, the kids kept asking about the next session. This pure love from children and sincere recognition from parents are the best reward for this course❤️

前几天沉浸在 ICASSI 现场,日程满满连整理文字的空隙都没有,现在终于静下心,补发这份来自保加利亚🇧🇬的记录。第 59 届 ICASSI 首日|保加利亚🇧🇬很荣幸以中国教员的身份,参与这场全球阿德勒心理学盛会。本届汇聚近 200 位伙伴...
31/07/2026

前几天沉浸在 ICASSI 现场,日程满满连整理文字的空隙都没有,现在终于静下心,补发这份来自保加利亚🇧🇬的记录。
第 59 届 ICASSI 首日|保加利亚🇧🇬
很荣幸以中国教员的身份,参与这场全球阿德勒心理学盛会。
本届汇聚近 200 位伙伴,来自 30 个国家:心理学家、咨询师、教育工作者、家长、青少年……
日程格外丰盈:主题讲座、深度专题研习,还有义卖会、国际晚会等丰富的夜间活动。ICASSI 每年轮换不同国家相聚,是全世界阿德勒学习者共同的精神家园。
路上遇见一位连续参会四年的瑞士友人,好奇发问:为什么大家愿意每年腾出暑假奔赴这里?
一旁学员的回答深深触动了我:
在这里,你可以安心做自己。哪怕犯错,依然被接纳和喜爱;你可以根据自己的节奏,安全地学习、获取养分:)
这几天持续沉浸在跨国对话里,越发觉得,这便是教育最本真的意义。
无论是和自己相处、经营家庭、带领团体、陪伴班级,我们都在追寻一份安定:
不必与人比较,允许自己真实模样;安心成为自己,依然值得被爱,依然能够创造价值。
跨越山海相聚,持续交流共创,步履不停。

English:
I was fully immersed in the ICASSI program these days with a packed schedule, so I only get a chance to share this reflection from Bulgaria 🇧🇬 now.
Day 1 of the 59th ICASSI|Bulgaria 🇧🇬
It is such an honor to join this global gathering of Adlerian psychology as a faculty member from China.
Nearly 200 participants from 30 countries have come together this year: psychologists, counselors, educators, parents, young people and more.
The agenda is rich with keynote lectures, in-depth seminars, alongside evening events including a charity bazaar and international gala. Rotating its host country annually, ICASSI serves as a spiritual home for Adlerian learners worldwide.
I met a Swiss participant who has attended ICASSI for four years in a row. I wondered why people keep traveling here every summer.
A fellow participant’s answer touched me deeply:
Here you can safely be yourself. Even when you make mistakes, you are accepted and loved. You can learn and grow at your own pace in a safe space.
After days of cross-cultural exchanges, I believe this captures the true essence of education.
Whether we relate to ourselves, nurture our families, lead groups or support students, we all seek inner peace:
No need to compare with others; embrace who you truly are. To be authentically yourself is to be worthy of love, and capable of creating meaning.
Connected across continents, we keep learning, exchanging and co-creating.
I’m Zheng Shuli

近日,我圆满完成福田区幼儿园融合教育质量提升项目(第三期)亲子沟通专题课程,和45组用心成长的家庭共度温暖又干货满满的育儿课堂❤️这场课程让我格外感动的是,课堂里不只有用心学习的妈妈们,更有近三分之一的爸爸、祖辈爷爷奶奶走进课堂共同进修。全...
30/06/2026

近日,我圆满完成福田区幼儿园融合教育质量提升项目(第三期)亲子沟通专题课程,和45组用心成长的家庭共度温暖又干货满满的育儿课堂❤️
这场课程让我格外感动的是,课堂里不只有用心学习的妈妈们,更有近三分之一的爸爸、祖辈爷爷奶奶走进课堂共同进修。全员主动成长的氛围,让我深深看见:一个家庭最好的教育,是全家人一起并肩学习。
依托15年家庭教育深耕经验,我在课堂中围绕科学亲子沟通核心内容,带领家长跳出传统育儿误区,纠正打骂教育、单一物质奖励等不当育儿方式。借助养育导航图,引导家长放下短期焦虑,立足孩子长远成长,专注培养孩子情绪管理、抗挫能力等终身受用的核心素养。
课堂全程轻互动、重实操,拒绝空洞理论。我带着家长们沉浸式练习正负语言改写、亲子专属暗号、有限选择引导、游戏化育儿等落地好用的育儿技巧,同时针对家庭高频育儿痛点:零食管控、孩子哭闹情绪、啃手指习惯、多子女手足矛盾等问题,逐一拆解答疑、给出可直接落地的解决方案。
课后很多家长反馈收获满满、备受启发:
✅ 宝爸计划立刻和孩子约定专属亲子暗号,重塑亲子互动模式;
✅ 祖辈家长幡然醒悟,正视日常负面话术对孩子的隐形伤害;
✅ 二孩家庭终于找到温和化解手足矛盾的科学方法。
育儿,是一场双向奔赴的成长。后续我会持续开展情绪管理、自信心培养等系列家庭教育专题课程,持续赋能每一位家长,让科学、温柔、高效的育儿方式走进千家万户,陪伴孩子自在、健康、向阳生

I recently successfully delivered the Phase 3 Parent-Child Communication Special Course of the Futian District Kindergarten Inclusive Education Quality Improvement Project, empowering 45 dedicated families with practical and heart-centered parenting education ❤️
What touched me most was the diverse group of learners. Besides mothers, nearly one-third of the participants were fathers and grandparents who took the initiative to learn and grow together. It fully proves that the best family education comes from the whole family growing side by side.
With 15 years of professional experience in family education, I guided parents to abandon traditional parenting misconceptions, including scolding, corporal punishment and single material reward education. With the parenting navigation framework, I helped parents get rid of short-term anxiety, focus on children’s long-term development, and cultivate their core abilities such as emotion management and resilience.
This course focuses entirely on practical operation rather than empty theories. I led parents to practice useful parenting skills through interactive sessions, including positive language transformation, exclusive parent-child secret signals, limited choice guidance, and playful parenting methods.
I also targeted common family parenting pain points such as snack management, children’s tantrums, nail-biting habits, and sibling conflicts, providing targeted, actionable solutions for every family’s confusion.
Parents gained profound insights after the course:
✅ Fathers are ready to set exclusive parent-child interaction signals with their children;
✅ Grandparents realized the hidden harm of negative daily language to children;
✅ Parents of multiple children mastered scientific methods to resolve sibling conflicts gently.
Parenting is a two-way growth journey. I will continue to launch a series of family education courses on emotion management and self-confidence building. I keep empowering parents with gentle and scientific parenting concepts, helping every child grow up freely, healthily and positively 🌱

圆满完成西交大利物浦外国语中学班主任正向教育专题赋能💛走进这所国际化底蕴浓厚的校园,最大的感触是这里一线班主任独有的气质:谦逊通透、保有教育热忱,即便常年应对青春期学生的各类沟通矛盾、班级细碎内耗,眼神里依旧保留着对教育的柔软初心。整场培训...
17/06/2026

圆满完成西交大利物浦外国语中学班主任正向教育专题赋能💛
走进这所国际化底蕴浓厚的校园,最大的感触是这里一线班主任独有的气质:谦逊通透、保有教育热忱,即便常年应对青春期学生的各类沟通矛盾、班级细碎内耗,眼神里依旧保留着对教育的柔软初心。
整场培训抛开枯燥理论,深耕一线班主任真实的精神内耗:青春期学生叛逆对抗、家校压力双向裹挟、长期高压下的职业情绪枯竭。我们从教师自我情绪接纳、内在能量重建开始,再落地正向沟通话术、启发式提问、有限选择权赋能三大实操工具,搭配分组实景角色扮演、班级疑难案例共创拆解。
最打动我的不是工具的学习,是老师们的状态转变:从一开始疲惫紧绷、习惯用管控思维处理问题,到慢慢卸下防备,看见自身的情绪内耗,读懂学生叛逆背后的心理需求。
很多老师课后坦言,以往都在忙着治愈学生,却忘了关照自己。
真正的正向育人,永远是先丰盈教师,再滋养学生。
双向疗愈,彼此照亮,这也是正向教育最动人的意义✨
#正向教育校园赋能 #教师身心成长 #国际化校园育人

Just wrapped up a positive education empowerment workshop for head teachers at XJTLU Foreign Language School 💛
Stepping into this international campus, I was deeply impressed by the group of frontline teachers. Humble, thoughtful and passionate about education, they still keep gentle enthusiasm despite long-term pressure from adolescent student conflicts, home-school coordination and exhausting daily class management.
We skipped rigid theoretical lectures and focused on teachers’ hidden mental burnout. The workshop covered inner emotional regulation, self-energy rebuilding, as well as practical positive communication strategies: reflective questioning, positive language transformation and granting limited choices to students. Through group role-play and collective case analysis, teachers reviewed their habitual rigid management patterns.
What touched me most was their subtle shift. They relaxed from chronic work tension, realized they had neglected their own mental health while devoting all energy to students.
Positive education always follows one rule: empower educators first, then nurture students. True educational growth is mutual healing between teachers and students.

❤️ 近日,受莲花北幼儿园之邀,我有幸为全园近40位骨干教师开展「正向游戏力」专项培训,与一群热爱幼教、深耕初心的老师们齐聚共学,在沉浸式体验中,一起解锁正向教育的温暖力量,赋能专业成长✨培训没有枯燥的理论灌输,只有轻松治愈的互动与干货满满...
18/05/2026

❤️ 近日,受莲花北幼儿园之邀,我有幸为全园近40位骨干教师开展「正向游戏力」专项培训,与一群热爱幼教、深耕初心的老师们齐聚共学,在沉浸式体验中,一起解锁正向教育的温暖力量,赋能专业成长✨
培训没有枯燥的理论灌输,只有轻松治愈的互动与干货满满的成长:
▫️ 「我很特别」自我探索——看见独一无二的自己,接纳本真,筑牢自我价值感,才能更好地陪伴孩子成长;
▫️ 手绘情绪小怪兽——以艺术为桥,学习觉察情绪、读懂情绪,既学会疏导自身情绪,也能更好地辨识、回应幼儿的内在感受;
▫️ 体验式互动觉察——读懂自身性格与教育风格,尊重人与人的天然差异,践行因材施教,用温柔共情守护童心。
幼教之路,始于热爱,成于专业。此次培训,不仅是一次教育理念的更新,更是一场幼师心灵的滋养与内在力量的重塑。愿每一位老师都能学有所悟、学以致用,把正向游戏力融入一日保教的每一个细节,用专业与温柔,陪伴每一个孩子自在生长、向阳而行🌱
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💛 Recently, I was honored to be invited by Lianhuabei Kindergarten to conduct a special training on "Positive Playfulness" for nearly 40 backbone teachers in the whole kindergarten. Gathered with a group of teachers who love early childhood education and uphold their original aspiration, we explored the warm power of positive education through immersive experience and empowered professional growth together ✨
There was no boring theoretical indoctrination in the training, only relaxed and healing interactions and substantial growth insights:
▫️ "I Am Special" Self-Exploration — See your unique self, accept your true nature, and build a solid sense of self-worth, so that you can better accompany children to grow;
▫️ Hand-painted Emotional Little Monster — Take art as a bridge to learn to perceive and understand emotions, not only learn to regulate your own emotions, but also better identify and respond to the inner feelings of young children;
▫️ Experiential Interactive Awareness — Understand your own personality and educational style, respect the natural differences between people, practice teaching students in accordance with their aptitude, and guard children's hearts with gentle empathy.
The road of early childhood education starts with love and succeeds with professionalism. This training is not only an update of educational concepts, but also a nourishment of teachers' hearts and a reshaping of their inner strength. May every teacher gain insights and apply what they have learned, integrate the concept of positive playfulness into every detail of daily teaching and care, and accompany every child to grow freely and move towards the sun with professionalism and tenderness 🌱

✨ICASSI阿德勒咖啡馆亚洲区首场线上分享会圆满收官✨ 本次ICASSI阿德勒咖啡馆亚洲区首届线上分享会,由阿德勒大学心理学硕士、ICASSI国际阿德勒夏季学院中文教员,深耕阿德勒心理学实践与传播多年的郑淑丽老师担任亚洲区组织者。 活动特...
15/04/2026

✨ICASSI阿德勒咖啡馆亚洲区首场线上分享会圆满收官✨

本次ICASSI阿德勒咖啡馆亚洲区首届线上分享会,由阿德勒大学心理学硕士、ICASSI国际阿德勒夏季学院中文教员,深耕阿德勒心理学实践与传播多年的郑淑丽老师担任亚洲区组织者。
活动特邀ICASSI国际阿德勒夏季学院主席、艺术疗法权威《Cows can be purple》德译作者,拥有三十余年阿德勒个体心理学实践经验的乌蒂老师主讲,带领大家用最简单的画笔,完成最深刻的自我探索:
画自己的名字,是重新认识“我是谁”;
画出生时的家,是和过去的自己温柔对话。

本次活动吸引了近60位来自全国各地及港澳地区的资深心理学爱好者、家庭教育工作者、心理咨询师及教育从业者深度参与、沉浸式体验;同时通过视频号直播,吸引了200多位学员在线观摩学习。

大家在体验中学习了阿德勒心理学与艺术治疗的融合应用,体验了非评判、自由表达的创作过程,收获了情绪的释放与内在的觉察。学员们纷纷表示本次活动干货满满、疗愈感十足,收获巨大,也热切期待未来能有更多这样高质量的专业学习与交流机会。

原来艺术治疗,从来不是给你答案,而是帮你找到自己的答案。
就像那句“奶牛可以是紫色的”,我们的人生,也从来没有标准答案。

每一幅画里,都藏着我们没说出口的情绪、没被看见的渴望。
当我们把内心画在纸上,那些拧巴的、纠结的、压抑的,好像都慢慢舒展了。

感恩这场相遇,也感恩每一个愿意直面自己的我们。
成长从来不是一蹴而就,而是每一次向内看的勇气。
更多专业分享与精彩活动,敬请期待下次相聚!✨

#阿德勒心理学 #艺术疗愈 #自我成长 #情绪疏导

✨ ICASSI Adler Café Asia's Chinese First Online Sharing Session Concluded Successfully ✨
This first-ever online sharing session of the ICASSI Adler Café in Asia China was organized by Ms. Zheng Shuli, who holds a Master's degree in Psychology from Adler University and serves as a Chinese faculty member of the International Committee of Adlerian Summer Schools and Institutes (ICASSI). She has been deeply engaged in the practice and dissemination of Adlerian psychology for many years.
The event specially invited Ms. Uti, President of ICASSI, an authority in art therapy, and German translator of Cows Can Be Purple, who has over thirty years of experience in Adlerian individual psychology. She led participants to engage in profound self-exploration using the simplest of tools — a paintbrush:
Drawing one's own name — to rediscover "Who am I?"
Drawing the home one was born into — to have a gentle dialogue with one's past self.
The event attracted nearly 60 passionate psychology enthusiasts, family education practitioners, psychological counselors, and education professionals from across China, including Hong Kong, Macau, and Taiwan, who participated deeply in this immersive experience. Meanwhile, through live streaming on WeChat Video Channels, over 200 learners observed and learned online.
Participants experienced the integration of Adlerian psychology and art therapy, engaged in a non-judgmental and freely expressive creative process, and gained emotional release and inner awareness. Many attendees expressed that the session was rich in practical content, highly healing, and enormously rewarding. They eagerly look forward to more high-quality professional learning and exchange opportunities like this in the future.
It turns out that art therapy never gives you the answer — it helps you find your own answer. Just like the saying, "Cows can be purple" — there is no single standard answer to our lives.
In every drawing lie emotions we haven't expressed and desires we haven't seen. When we put our inner world onto paper, the tangled, conflicted, and suppressed feelings slowly begin to loosen.
Grateful for this encounter, and grateful to every one of us who dares to face ourselves. Growth is never achieved overnight — it is the courage to look inward, time and time again.
Stay tuned for more professional sharing and exciting events. See you next time! ✨

💛 国际鼓励咨询师认证班・深圳站(4.10-4.12)圆满收官 💛三天深度内在探索,一场温柔而彻底的疗愈之旅。从看见内在小孩、连接内在小孩,到疗愈内在小孩,我们回溯童年、拆解情绪、解开原生家庭与关系的心结。放下 “我不够好” 的限制性信念,...
13/04/2026

💛 国际鼓励咨询师认证班・深圳站(4.10-4.12)圆满收官 💛
三天深度内在探索,一场温柔而彻底的疗愈之旅。
从看见内在小孩、连接内在小孩,到疗愈内在小孩,我们回溯童年、拆解情绪、解开原生家庭与关系的心结。
放下 “我不够好” 的限制性信念,允许所有情绪被看见,跳出固有视角,读懂沉默的爱与认可。
三天里,我们不仅疗愈自己,更收获支持他人的力量;
学会滋养内在小孩,也更懂温柔养育孩子、经营所有关系。
向内扎根,向外发光,带着觉察与鼓励,继续前行。
感恩郑淑丽导师的引领,感恩同频伙伴的陪伴与敞开 💛
#鼓励咨询 #内在小孩疗愈 #自我成长 #亲密关系 #亲子教育 #深圳心理课程
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💛 International Encouragement Consultant Certification · Shenzhen (Apr 10–12) Successfully Completed 💛
Three days of deep inner journey, a gentle yet profound healing experience.
From meeting, connecting to healing our inner child, we revisited childhood, unpacked emotions, and resolved knots from our family of origin and relationships.
We let go of limiting beliefs like “I’m not good enough”, allowed all emotions to be seen, shifted perspectives, and understood the silent love and approval from others.
Over these three days, we not only healed ourselves but also gained the power to support others.
We learned to nurture our inner child, and became better at parenting gently and building healthy relationships.
Rooted inward, shining outward—moving forward with awareness and encouragement.
Grateful for the guidance of Instructor Zheng Shu Li and the companionship & openness of all fellow participants 💛

深耕正向教育 点亮成长底色正面管教园丁系统课·首日圆满收官|上外龙岗附校💛3月7日,受上海外国语大学龙岗附属学校邀请,正面管教园丁系统课正式启幕,首日课程圆满落幕!当日课程聚焦归属感与价值感核心,深度探索校园场景下,如何让每个孩子被看见、被...
09/03/2026

深耕正向教育 点亮成长底色
正面管教园丁系统课·首日圆满收官|上外龙岗附校💛

3月7日,受上海外国语大学龙岗附属学校邀请,正面管教园丁系统课正式启幕,首日课程圆满落幕!

当日课程聚焦归属感与价值感核心,深度探索校园场景下,如何让每个孩子被看见、被接纳、被尊重,筑牢内在成长与主动学习的心理根基。从正面管教教师工具卡实操,到家庭小组共创、致谢环节与班会议程研习,让专业理论真正落地课堂教学。

课程设置多重沉浸式体验:
上方卡活动帮助觉察教育风格与行为倾向,读懂行为背后的深层动机,实现因材施教;
表扬与鼓励的区别专题,拆解两种教育方式的底层逻辑,引导教育者从“评价式”转向“赋能式”引导;
回忆童年体验唤醒共情能力,提升教育温度;
鼓励圈练习则让老师们在包容的氛围中相互肯定,掌握赋能语言的运用,让鼓励成为可复制、可传递的教育力量。

教育的起点,是让每个孩子在教室拥有归属感;
教育的终点,是让每个孩子活出价值感。
以正向教育点亮课堂,用专业守护每一份成长✨

Deepening Positive Education, Illuminating the Foundation of Growth
Positive Discipline Gardener System Course · Day 1 Successfully Concluded | SUIS Longgang Campus💛

On March 7th, invited by Shanghai Foreign Language School Longgang Campus, the Positive Discipline Gardener System Course officially kicked off, with the first day's session coming to a successful close!

Centered on the core of Belonging and Significance, the course explored in depth how to ensure every child is seen, accepted, and respected in the classroom, laying a solid psychological foundation for their inner growth and active learning. From the practical application of Positive Discipline Teacher Tool Cards, to family group co-creation, appreciation sessions, and the study of class meeting agendas, professional theories were effectively translated into classroom practices.

The course featured a series of immersive experiences: The "Above the Line" activity helped educators reflect on their teaching styles and behavioral tendencies, understand the underlying motivations behind actions, and implement student-centered teaching. The special session on the differences between praise and encouragement analyzed the core logic of the two approaches, guiding educators to shift from "evaluation-oriented" to "empowerment-oriented" guidance. The "Recall Childhood" experience awakened empathy, enhancing the warmth of education. The Encouragement Circle exercise allowed teachers to affirm each other in a safe and inclusive atmosphere, master the use of empowering language, and turn encouragement into a replicable and transmissible educational force.

The starting point of education is to let every child find belonging in the classroom; the destination is to let every child live with a sense of significance.
Illuminating classrooms with positive education, guarding every growth with professionalism✨

10/02/2026

✨ The Path to Becoming High-Energy Parents | Two Days of Deep Engagement Successfully Concluded ✨

Over these past two days, we've journeyed together along the path of becoming high-energy parents, gathering abundant inspiration and profound insights. Every parent learned through hands-on practice how to use positive energy to understand, support, and guide their children, discovering parenting wisdom in every detail.

🌱 This was not merely an experience of growth, but a profound resonance of hearts! We extend our deepest gratitude to every parent for your participation—your dedication and efforts will lay a solid foundation for your children's future.

🔜 We look forward to our next gathering, continuing our journey of growth together!



✨ 高能父母成长之道 | 两天深度陪伴圆满结束 ✨

这两天,我们一起走过了高能父母的成长之路,收获了满满的感动与启发。每位家长都在实战中学会了如何用正向的力量去理解、支持与引导孩子,在每一个细节中找到教养的智慧。

🌱 这不仅是一次成长的体验,更是一次心灵的共鸣!感谢每位父母的参与,您们的付出与努力将为孩子们的未来铺就坚实的基础。

🔜 我们期待下一次的相遇,一同继续成长!

#高能父母 #成长之道 #正向教养 #亲子关系 #家庭教育

Today's Activity Recap|Kids' “Five Skills” Training Ground—Parents Begging for More!Today's February 1st half-day worksh...
02/02/2026

Today's Activity Recap|Kids' “Five Skills” Training Ground—Parents Begging for More!

Today's February 1st half-day workshop on “Werewolf” as a children's game concluded successfully! Eleven kids from second to ninth grade were fully immersed throughout the session, their eyes glued to the table for three hours straight.

Under Ms. Jiang's guidance, the game transformed into a practical training ground for five essential skills:
✅ Logical Thinking: Analyzing statements and tracing logical chains—even the youngest participants earnestly deduced “who the werewolves are.”
✅ Communication: Taking turns speaking without hesitation—the 9th graders even turned “bold bluffing” into debate-style showdowns
✅ Teamwork: The good faction exchanged silent glances and coordinated seamlessly, their chemistry off the charts
✅ Adaptability: When identities were questioned, their quick thinking drew applause
✅ Empathy: Winners stay humble, and losers laugh it off with “Next time I'll be a better actor!”

Parents filled out the “Five Skills Score Observation Sheet” beside them, growing more amazed with each entry:
“Who knew my kid had such deep thoughts during games!”
“This is way more effective than tutoring—they're building skills while having fun!”
As the session ended, parents crowded around asking, “When's the next one? We're definitely signing up again!”

138 RMB / Your child's immersion brings double the joy—they won't want to leave, and you'll be begging for more! Next Session

March 29th—parents of eligible kids, get ready to pounce. Spots are seriously first-come, first-served!

今日活动回顾|孩子们的 “五力” 修炼场,家长追着要续场!

今天 2 月 1 日的儿童游戏力狼人杀半日工作坊圆满收官啦!11 位从二年级到初三的孩子全程沉浸,3 小时里眼睛都没离开过桌面。

在蒋老师的带领下,大家把狼人杀玩成了 “五力” 实战课:
✅ 逻辑力:分析发言、盘清逻辑链,连最小的娃都在认真推理 “谁才是狼人”
✅ 表达力:轮流发言不怯场,初三的孩子更是把 “悍跳” 玩出了辩论赛的感觉
✅ 协作力:好人阵营悄悄递眼神、打配合,默契度直接拉满
✅ 应变力:身份被怀疑时,临场反应快到让人拍手叫绝
✅ 共情力:赢了不骄傲,输了也会笑着说 “下次我要更会演”

家长们在一旁填写《“五力” 得分观察表》,越写越惊喜:
“原来我家娃在游戏里这么有想法!”
这比报补习班有用多了,笑着就把能力练了!”
散场时都围着问:“下次什么时候办?必须再报!”

138 元 / 孩子的投入,换来的是孩子玩到不想走、家长追着要续场的双重快乐!下一场

3月29日,适龄娃的家长可以先蹲住,名额真的靠抢~

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