Tolulope Adeyemo she/her

Tolulope Adeyemo   she/her Digital creator
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👌Validating & empowering moms
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24/05/2026

PART TWO + my tips for each

2 years ago I was always exhausted working from home with my toddlers.

I woke up every morning dragging myself out of bed

Tried to follow strict routines, set alarms, and push myself through anyway.

But nothing changed.

Then I realised something:

I was doing more than I could bear

And It wasn’t just leaving money on the table,
It was costing me visibility and opportunities.

So I made a decision.

These are the habits I stole from men that moved me from overwhelm to landing my dream job as a productivity coach.

Now I help professional moms around the world hit their goals without burnout.

1. Men don’t apologize for being competent. Each time you say “sorry” before speaking, you are less likely to be trusted with decisions or get higher pay, and you always have to work harder to prove yourself.

âś…Tip: Start meetings with your main point. No over-explaining.

2. Men sit down and watch TV without a speech. Moms collapse on the couch and immediately justify it. When your body forces a stop, your output drops and your family and work slow down at once.

âś…Tip: Put rest on your calendar.

3. Men don’t carry other people’s problems. They help if they can, and move on. Moms absorb it and lose sleep over it. The next day, your decisions are slower and your own work don’t get done.

âś…Tip: Give concern, not your whole evening.

4. Men get criticized at work and move on by lunch.
A side comment that lives in your head for three weeks is costing you hours of focus that should go to work, planning, or ex*****on.

âś…Tip: Pause, process it then move on.

5. Men talk about their goals loudly and without apology.
Moms whisper their dreams like they are too much. Delaying your goals means fewer options and higher effort to catch up in the future.

âś…Tip: Pick one goal and schedule the first action this week.

If you’re a working mom who wants to reclaim 8 hours this week for your goals comment “TIME” to work with me.

23/05/2026

1. Men plan their gym, games, and calls no apology. Moms put themselves last. Schedule yourself like you matter. You do.

2. Men say no and move on. The more you explain, the weaker your no gets. Say it. Mean it. Done.

3. Men work stays at work. Moms carry everything everywhere. Your kids need a present mom not a busy, stressed one.

4. Men keep their hobbies, friends, and dreams after kids. You’re allowed to also. Who you are outside “mom” is a gift to your children.

5. Dads let kids fail and figure it out. Moms jump in too fast. Falling is how kids grow. Let it happen.

6. Men eat, sleep, and recharge no apology. Moms run on empty and call it love. You can’t raise a calm child from a burnt-out body.

7. Men cut off draining people fast. Moms absorb everyone’s mess to “keep the peace.” A limit isn’t mean. It’s protection for you and your kids.

8. Men say it once and mean it, Moms warn, repeat, explain, warn again. Kids don’t respect noise. They respect follow-through. Talk less. Do more.

9. Men call an expert the moment they need one no shame. Moms try to do everything alone and call it strength. Getting help is the smartest thing you can do.

10. When a kid messes up, moms feel like they failed. Men say “okay, how do we fix it?” Your child’s grades, choices, and mistakes are theirs not your report card.

Every single thing on this list needs one thing you keep saying you don’t have.
“Time”

The moms who actually live this way got ruthlessly intentional with the ones they already had.

What’s one thing you’ve watched a man do that quietly changed how you show up as a mom?

comment TIME and let’s build a day that finally allows you breathe, shine and achieve your goals.

Every woman I know is a warrior. You are a warrior! You get up every morning, even when you don’t feel like it. You take...
08/03/2025

Every woman I know is a warrior. You are a warrior! You get up every morning, even when you don’t feel like it. You take on that job and get it done because you don’t know how to stay idle. All you think about is bringing value. You take on the responsibility of the home because you’re a giver. You give life, joy, care, peace, and love. Dear woman, you rock! Let’s take a moment to celebrate ourselves.

A light🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰
08/02/2025

A light🔥🔥🔥🔥🥰🥰

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