05/09/2026
The seizure is the part people see. It is rarely the part that takes the most out of you âš¡
What sits around it is harder to describe. The waiting. The planning that goes into things other people do without thinking. The quiet calculation before a train journey, a night out, a shift at work. The phone that stays on loud because someone at home wants to be reachable.
When seizures are not under control, all of that runs in the background, every day. From the outside it can look like an ordinary life. Inside, a lot of energy goes into keeping it looking that way.
We are not saying this to make anyone afraid. We are saying it because plenty of people carry exactly this and assume they are the only ones ðŸ’
If you recognise yourself in any of this, whether you live with or love someone who does, the comments are open. Sometimes it helps to see it written down by someone else.