08/09/2026
Have you ever encountered questions about why you choose to actively support your child’s development?
I certainly hear phrases like:
❗️“They didn’t spend time on that in the old days, and all adults can walk.”!
❗️“I didn’t crawl, and I’m fine!”
❗️“You don’t see any adults today with the back of their heads flat!”
🔸When we were children, it wasn’t yet known that not sleeping on the back increases the risk of SIDS. That’s why it was normal to lay babies on their tummies - one night with their heads turned to the right, the next to the left. This prevented preferred side and relieved tension, resulting in a much lower prevalence of flat heads. That’s why we don’t see many adults with this today. But once the fontanelles have fused, the head doesn’t naturally round out again, so it’s important to understand that it won’t just correct itself.
🔸We know much more today. Extensive research has been conducted on motor development, and more people are successfully communicating this knowledge.
❗️The previous generation’s ceiling is often the new generation’s floor❗️
We now understand that a strong motor foundation creates good conditions for a lifelong joy of movement, social participation, and overall health - both mental and physical.
🔸Many of us are fortunate enough to live in a society where our basic needs are met. Motor skills are not a matter of life and death but of quality of life so there’s room for raising the bar for our children in many countries.
🔸An important factor is also the rise of screen time, which has taken over much of the time children used to spend moving.
🔸Finally, there is much more of a “beware” culture today than in the past. Here in Denmark I notice too many empty playgrounds and when there are children there, their parents often supervise them intensively.
❗️This week I offer a 20% discount on all my science-based baby exercise and sleep programs❗️
With love,
Maria ♥️