01/11/2026
❤️🩹SAFTY❤️🩹
That little girl, she wanted to learn so much, she wanted to be brave, she wanted to do everything as good as possible.
She got praised evertime she did good, everytime she was happy, sweet, caring. Evertime she behaved in the way that was expected, and demanded.
She got love, she was being praised and paced of the good behavior that she had.
Everytime she was messy, talk to much, had to many ideas, was too loud, too angry, too emotional.. she was met of the feeling that this behavior was not acceptable.
Silently she forgot her self.
If she wasn't good enough, if she wasent the best in class, relationship etc. nothing mattered.
So she learned to master her self, she became the "best" in all her interests, she got praised from everyone around her..
Then she could feel praised and loved in that way.
It is exhausting to always be the best, to always be perfect... there is no room for failure..
Because she just wanted to be loved, cared for, seen and heard.
But what if life invites us in the failure, to be messy, to be ugly, to be "too much" , to screw to wrong screw into the wall.
and then we meet us self as perfect in that case aswell.
What if you dare to go out there and be a little bit messy?
What if you not always have the answer to everthing?
What if you aim for always loving your self in every "failure" you meet?
What if life just is a playground?
Be your own safespace, surround yourself with people who belive in you, cheer on you self in every expression you have, and invite conciusness and love in...
Healing is safty, movement, expression in all forms...