08/03/2024
Mar 8, 2024 - It takes a village to raise a strong, sensitive man. Today, I pay tribute to and express gratitude for the women who played a crucial role in shaping my identity. Without their guidance and support, I wouldn't be the person I am today.
Marie, who I affectionately named Manie (1891-1979), was my soul mother. Her capacity for wholehearted love left a lasting impression on me. My aunt embraced vulnerability and taught me the power of love through patient, affectionate touch. Spending countless hours together, we shared a profound connection that eventually inspired my journey into massage therapy. She instilled in me the importance of presence in every moment and showed me the beauty of unconditional love and patience.
Mathilda, or Billy as she preferred to be called (1901-1996), always recognized wisdom beyond my years. With her resourcefulness, she could fashion creations out of rags and captivate through storytelling. Our philosophical discussions around religion and spirituality expanded my horizons, teaching me the value of silence and contemplation. Grandma encouraged me to challenge norms and embrace diverse perspectives, fostering a spirit of curiosity and exploration.
Dorothy (1918-2017) taught me the essence of acceptance, both in childhood and adulthood. Her warm embrace extended not only to me but also to my husband, exemplifying the true meaning of family. As the first woman in my family to attain a university degree, grand maman shared her life's story with me, revealing her vulnerabilities and strengths. Through her courage, I discovered the spontaneity of her inner child and learned invaluable lessons in empathy and servitude.
I honour the divine feminine within Louise, my mother (1945 - ). I also recognize that no single mother can fulfill every child's need, I honour her for the lessons she imparted. Her diligence and determination instilled in me a sense of wonder for the world and the courage to take risks for personal growth. Her work ethic and pursuit of lifelong learning, including embarking on a PHD at 79, serves as a testament to her resilience and serves as an ongoing source of inspiration.