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Before you unfollow- I’m actually a big fan of gratitude practice — it’s my default setting these days 😍But in the midst...
04/06/2026

Before you unfollow- I’m actually a big fan of gratitude practice — it’s my default setting these days 😍

But in the midst of my midlife implosion, it did nothing except make me VERY ungrateful about being told to be grateful đŸ€Ź

Because when your nervous system is properly shot, even the “simple” tools start to feel like too much.

So if you’re currently scrolling for hours, avoiding emails, or using food and wine to switch your brain off
this isn’t a discipline issue đŸ™đŸŒ

It’s a capacity issue đŸ€Ż

And you don’t need another thing to DO.

You might actually need a pause
 and to stop ‘optimizing’.

What if you just let yourself BE for a change?

Full piece on Substack (link in bio)

At one point in my life, I would recommend breathing techniques and meditation đŸ§˜â€â™€ïžAt another point in my life, I could ...
03/06/2026

At one point in my life, I would recommend breathing techniques and meditation đŸ§˜â€â™€ïž

At another point in my life, I could not manage either.

Anyway
 that’s the piece.
Over on Substack 💕

When life was tough a few years back, I realised how automatic my evenings had become. The overwhelm at the end of the d...
02/05/2026

When life was tough a few years back, I realised how automatic my evenings had become.

The overwhelm at the end of the day. The sofa. The snacks. Usually with a glass of wine (or two) to take the edge off just that bit more đŸ·đŸ«

It had become so habitual I wasn’t even part of the decision-making process anymore.

This week I’ve shared a simple tool I still use now, and that my clients love, because it helped me put the brakes on just enough to start changing things in my life for the better.

The 3Ds: Delay, distract, decide.

Does that end of day autopilot feel familiar?
If so you’ll find full details of the 3Ds over on Substack if you want to try it for yourself (link in bio) 💕

22/04/2026

And we keep telling ourselves

“This time I’ll try harder.”

If you’re in that familiar cycle right now—being “good”, slipping, and feeling like you need to start again—you’re far from alone 💕

But what if the real question isn’t how to do it better?

What if it’s whether this cycle is actually working for you at all?

The one that goes:

Be “good” → mess up → beat yourself up → repeat 🔁

Over and over again.

What if you don’t need another restart


What if you need to recognise that you were never the problem in the first place? ✹

That it’s the cycle—and diet culture that keeps it going—that’s the problem.

If this feels a bit too familiar, I’ve written more about it (and what to do instead) over on Substack 📝

Link’s in the bio 👇

Maybe it started with “I’ll just relax a little,” and quickly turned into that familiar ‘it’s the weekend so no rules ap...
19/04/2026

Maybe it started with “I’ll just relax a little,” and quickly turned into that familiar ‘it’s the weekend so no rules apply’ energy đŸ·đŸ«đŸż

A bit more of this, a bit more of that
 and suddenly you’re in full “I’ll deal with it on Monday” mode.

And now here you are, already planning the reset.
“I’ll be good this week.”
“I’ll get back on track.”

Before you do that, press pause for a minute and bear with me đŸ™đŸŒ

Because if willpower and fresh starts were the answer, they would have worked by now.

Those end-of-day snacks and wine moments? They’re rarely about food. There’s usually something else going on underneath — and until you see that, the cycle just keeps repeating 🔂

I’ve just shared something on emotional eating in midlife that might help you make sense of it all, without more rules or another restart.

Join me on Substack (link in bio) to have a read if this feels a bit too familiar. Subscribe and you’ll get lots more like this in the coming weeks đŸ™đŸŒ

17/04/2026

Same job. Far better life experience 💕

A little reminder to choose you where you can today đŸ™đŸŒ

15/04/2026

A lot of women in midlife are told it’s “just hormones.”

And yes — hormones matter. They shift, they fluctuate, they affect everything.

But they’re not the whole story.

Often they’re more like an amplifier
 turning up the volume on everything that’s already been building for years 📈

The load.
The pressure.
The holding-it-all-together energy. 🧠

So if things feel harder than they used to, it’s not because you’ve suddenly stopped coping.

It might just be that nothing is being filtered out anymore.

Full piece is on Substack if this resonates ✍

Well hello again 👋 I’ve been a bit quiet on here for a while
.. a long while actually 😆Life, work, kids, all the usual m...
12/04/2026

Well hello again 👋 I’ve been a bit quiet on here for a while
.. a long while actually 😆

Life, work, kids, all the usual midlife juggling
 and I stepped back from posting for a bit to have a reflect, regroup and reset. It all got a bit much to be honest so I went in search of my mojo!

I found it đŸ„ł and started writing again — but now over on Substack.

It’s where I’m going to be sharing more of what I’m noticing (and working through myself) around midlife energy, hormones, emotional eating, mindset and why so many of us feel like we’re constantly chasing our tails.

âŹ‡ïž Less “here’s what you should do”
âŹ†ïž More “here’s what’s actually going on and what helps in real life”

If you’d like to read along I’d be delighted to see you over on Substack, you can find me there now offering my twopeneth on how your current morning routine might just be ruining your day. And more importantly, the tiny tweaks that can genuinely change that 💕

👉 have a little read here if you fancy it https://open.substack.com/pub/motherflushingmidlife/p/the-morning-habits-that-are-quietly?r=73mkr2&utm_medium=ios

Over 4 weeks, you’ll get:✅ Accountability & support—to make those lifestyle changes feel effortless ‹✅ Weekly & monthly ...
25/05/2025

Over 4 weeks, you’ll get:
✅ Accountability & support—to make those lifestyle changes feel effortless ‹✅ Weekly & monthly goal setting to keep you on track and accountable‹✅ Food & lifestyle logs for real, doable insights into what you’re actually eating/doing
 not what you tell yourself!!‹✅ Bite-sized micro-classes busting myths and simplifying 40+ nutrition so you feel confident you’re fueling yourself properly ‹✅ Delicious recipes & resources to help you nail your goals without making your busy life busier!

Remember: you’re not lazy. You’re not unmotivated. You’re just human — and trying to do it alone.

✹ Ready to finally follow through?
DM me “Hive” and let’s make it happen.

🚹But hurry- offer ends (and doors close for June membership) on Friday 30th May.

🚹 Thrive Hive doors are OPEN... but only until Sunday 27th April for a May start! 🐝This is your nudge if you’ve been mea...
24/04/2025

🚹 Thrive Hive doors are OPEN... but only until Sunday 27th April for a May start! 🐝

This is your nudge if you’ve been meaning to prioritise your health, but life just keeps getting in the way. Inside the Hive, we keep it real, doable and zero pressure.

Here’s what you get:

✅ Accountability & support—to make those lifestyle changes feel effortless
✅ Weekly & monthly goal setting so you actually follow through (without the overwhelm)
✅ Food & lifestyle logs for honest, helpful insights—no more flying blind
✅ Bite-sized micro-classes to simplify 40+ nutrition so you know you’re fuelling yourself right
✅ Yummy recipes + a flexible 2-week meal plan for high-protein, nutrient-rich meals that fit your life

It’s a space for women like you—juggling work, family, perimenopause—who are ready to feel vibrant, confident and in control again.

✹DM or comment “🐝” and I’ll tell you if it’s the right fit for you. We start next Monday for the month of May. Doors close Sunday 27th April. Don’t miss out.

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