31/07/2026
Most women I meet can rattle off what everyone in the house won't eat. Ask what they'd choose for themselves and the room goes quiet.
My mother could have been a wonderful cook. But she cooked for my father, who fished every piece of garlic and onion out of whatever she made, acting personally offended by the poor bulbs. My brother wouldn't touch cheese, so cheese left. So, the interesting things got voted off the plate, and she let them go to keep the peace.
The one who cooks for everyone eats the narrowest. And variety is one of the things the brain feeds on.
No time? My Hack 5 takes 30 seconds. Cook the family their dinner. Then, before you sit down, claim your own plate. Herbs torn over the top. A squeeze of lemon. A tin of the good sardines. The spring onions nobody else was brave enough for. Thirty 'selfish' seconds.
The whole thing, science and all, is on my Substack. Hack 5 of ten, and all ten are the backbone of my free Brain Food Bootcamp, September 7th to 11th. Subscribe and you'll get the hacks as they land, and your spot when the doors open.
https://open.substack.com/pub/sandravantongerloo/p/cook-with-yourself-in-mind-first?r=6xkjvd&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web