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✨Supporting you re-orient your nervous system and
✨RECLAIM SAFETY AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS AFTER TRAUMA
IFS, RTT, Clinical Hypnotherapy, Polyvagal and Trauma Coaching Trained

As I am revisiting some of Peter Levine’s work, felt like sharing this tender reminder with you. ⁠⁠There is no way to co...
18/06/2021

As I am revisiting some of Peter Levine’s work, felt like sharing this tender reminder with you. ⁠

There is no way to compare our trauma to another person’s. Even if our human reaction would be to do so, please hold a space for this: You can learn to identify your own trauma by exploring your reactions (especially your nervous system reactions).⁠

Your experience is valid, your suffering is real, even if you did not go through a visible, accepted by society trauma event.⁠

You are seen, you are valid.⁠




The Internal Family Systems model is a powerfully transformative and evidence-based model of psychotherapy.⁠⁠⁠⁠Within th...
11/06/2021

The Internal Family Systems model is a powerfully transformative and evidence-based model of psychotherapy.⁠⁠
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Within the frame of this method, a person can take on several different family roles when they are in an environment that they perceive as dangerous. ⁠⁠
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This forms an “internal family system” and these sub-persons, or parties, act separately from the Self.⁠⁠
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Each of us have a distinct set of these parts and also a Self endowed in an innate way with qualities such as trust, compassion, and acceptance without judgment. ⁠⁠
It is only when the parts become extreme that problems arise.⁠⁠
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In the IFS, all your parts are welcome.⁠⁠
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The purpose of IFS is of understanding and harmonizing our inner parts, knowing that our core Self knows how to heal and has the qualities that allow those parts to become integrated and allow us to become whole again.⁠⁠
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IFS Therapy categorises these roles into three broad subpersonality types:⁠⁠
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THE MANAGERS⁠⁠
Proactive protective parts that anticipate, forecast and plan. They want to prevent exiles from experiencing a painful experience. ⁠⁠
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THE EXILES⁠⁠
These are represented by the sensitive parts that hold the experience of trauma. They carry the burden of suffering and get isolated, exiled, by the protective parts.⁠⁠
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THE FIREFIGHTERS⁠⁠
Reactive protective parts that react and are impulsive,. They are acting instantly to stop suffering of exiles and in order to make the situation more bearable.⁠

Have you heard about this type of therapy? Ever tried it? Did you find it helpful?

Others had it worse than you!⁠⁠Is a phrase that trauma survivors often hear.⁠⁠Humans experience trauma in a variety of w...
18/04/2021

Others had it worse than you!⁠

Is a phrase that trauma survivors often hear.⁠

Humans experience trauma in a variety of ways, therefore no two traumatic events can be truly compared. ⁠There are layers and nuances that make each experience valid.⁠

Rather than comparing them, let us look at each other with support and understanding. Let's stop making trauma survivors' experiences feel *less important than*⁠

I wonder if you felt your trauma experience was compared and how that landed in you.

When we think about repair in a parent-child relationship...⁠⁠We think about a parent cultivating connexion and repair a...
17/04/2021

When we think about repair in a parent-child relationship...⁠

We think about a parent cultivating connexion and repair after a disruptive experience. (And by that it can be anything that feels disregulating for a child's nervous system). ⁠

If repair is not done and the experiences start to collect, the attachment and relationship will be affected, creating therefore long term effects (mistrust, self-doubt, lack of self-confidence, associating love with abusive language and gestures and so on)⁠.⁠

Many childhood trauma survivors adapt through tucking away or even disliking these younger parts/their inner child, because the connexion between their adult self and their inner child is blurred by many other protective parts. And this makes perfect sense.⁠

This is to encourage you that the process of reparenting is possible, even when you did not have the chance to have the caregivers you wished you had.⁠

With love and support,⁠
Cristiana

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When you feel like there's no progress...⁠⁠⁠Gently remind yourself you are on a moment to moment journey. ⁠⁠That sometim...
16/04/2021

When you feel like there's no progress...⁠


Gently remind yourself you are on a moment to moment journey. ⁠

That sometimes, even getting out of bed is a win that day. ⁠

Getting dressed, feeling the texture of your clothes, sensing the sun's light softly passing through your window, feeling the wind on your face, hearing those birds chirping. ⁠

Healing can come under these forms as well. Healing is not always a box to check in.⁠

What is the tiniest thing you experienced today that felt like healing?

Because I am a an advocate for narcissistic abuse survivors.⁠⁠Because lately I realized that more and more of the people...
13/04/2021

Because I am a an advocate for narcissistic abuse survivors.⁠

Because lately I realized that more and more of the people who come see me have experienced psychological/verbal/emotional/sexual and physical abuse. ⁠

Because narcissistic abuse is trauma.⁠

Because you need to remember over and over again when they will reach back with honey wrapped words that is not what they say on repeat, but what they actually do, that matters.⁠

Because I am a child of a narcissistic parent and have experienced on my own skin what it means to self-doubt, to not trust myself for years, to fawn and get invisible in front of my abuser(s).⁠

Because when you come to me and tell me how it feels, I will believe you. ⁠

Because I also believe you can recover and build healthy, stronger boundaries, find your voice and sanity again.⁠

Sending so much love for you, WARRIOR!

When I speak about feeling safe within relationships.⁠⁠⁠I relate to feeling safe inside your body and have a harmonious ...
31/03/2021

When I speak about feeling safe within relationships.⁠

⁠I relate to feeling safe inside your body and have a harmonious relationship between your body and minds, between your deifferent parts.⁠

I also relate to feeling safe within the intimate relationships, the one you can have with a partner or a very close friend. ⁠

And last but not least, I think about the relationship you have with your children, your family, your colleagues and acquaintances, your therapist and/coach.⁠

You might have already heard about attachment theory and how we are wired to connect to a primary figure. Well, the way we connect and attach will influence the way we respond and react in our relationships further on. ⁠

We tend to repeat the same patterns, as on a subconscious level it feels so familiar! What is familiar = safe (even if it really is not!).⁠

No wonder you seek the same dynamics you already know, as for your body and mind is something you already know. ⁠

What you can remember is:⁠

Your attachment style can change depending on the type of relationship.⁠

Your attachment style is not a diagnosis but you might have experienced attachment wounds.⁠

You can absolutely heal these wounds!⁠

Do you think you might have attachment wounds?

Trauma comes under lots of shapes and forms.⁠⁠This post is not to say that every human life is touched by a traumatic ex...
29/03/2021

Trauma comes under lots of shapes and forms.⁠

This post is not to say that every human life is touched by a traumatic experience but more to acknowledge the fact that yes, we might think we had a happy childhood and actually feel dysregulated or like we cannot function as adults.⁠

The brain has the amazing capacity to block and arrange those traumatic files in such way the we might live many years before we even realize something happened. ⁠

What might seem as a *happy childhood* can be actually painted with family dysfunction, emotional neglect, abusive language, psychological distress and much more.⁠

Imagine not feeling safe for months and years in your own home, with your own family! How can that shape and impact the way your body feels in the world later?⁠

If this post speaks to you, know that you are not alone!

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28/03/2021

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