22/05/2026
{Death to ReBirth} Rite of Passage: from patriarchally-programmed ego self to sovereign, Soul-sourced Self
I was thinking about niches today & how originally I thought: I donât have a niche; healing & liberation is for everyone
However when thinking about the life cycle & rites of passage & moving from one developmental stage to the next, I realized my work & genius is specific to:
đ« The dissolution of the false-self (the socially conditioned ego-personality mask) & the emergence of the True Self/Soul đž
That passage⊠from death of one identity, one way of being in the world, to birthing your next layer of authentic Soul expression is really my niche
Death to ReBirth is the passage Iâm most interested in & familiar with
And thatâs a place, a feeling, a groundlessness, a mystery so complex & multidimensional that itâs difficult to put into words
Thatâs why metaphor & stories translate it best, because they speak to something in the human collective psyche we all recognize, however vaguely, and find comfort in
The Heroâs journey, of leaving the comfortable, familiar tribe behind & going off into the Great Unknown to discover YOUR Truth & gifts, outside of the group who programmed you
This journey back to yourself is necessary on the path of self-actualization
But eventually the Heroine returns back to the tribe, back to the world & she is changed
But HOW to integrate this new Self, this new identity, in the world where others might expect you to be who you were when you left?
This is the passage of âthe space inbetweenâ (not who you once were but not integrated & embodying who youâre Becoming)
Itâs an intense time, with contraction & expansion, where time is out of time & you are between worlds
And if you (like me!) have been on this passage for years
Years & years of questing, leaving, dying, attuning, receiving, returning, integrating, emerging
Wouldnât it be amazing to debrief with another on that same journey!?
Thatâs where I come in
A hybrid of a soul-led holistic therapist (BA in Psych & M.Ed. in Relational Counseling) with nearly 18 years experience in spirituality & soul
Iâd love to support you!